Dear Barbara
I am so sorry for your loss it is so hard to get through these times
we just have to live each day.
I have just come back onto the forum after being away for a while at a treatment centre in Melbourne called Ian gawlers, with my MUM who has Adeno carcinoma.
We were given a prayer which I hope helps you, it seems right to give it to you.
The serenity Prayer
God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change
the courage to change things I can and must change
and the wisdom to know the difference.
Hope this helps, has helped me.
Jody C from Auckland New Zealand