Kasey

OMG...................can't believe anyone stays there, Donna. Come on back east!!!! Happy holidays to you . Love, Kasey

Love back to you, Barbara. I cannot begin to imagine the void in your life. How have you been doing physically? You were dealing with issues last you were here. Wish words could make things better. However, just dont' know what they would be. You are special to all of us here, and I know I speak for many when I say we wish we could help you through this difficult time. Love, Kasey

Thanks, Donna. And a very happy holiday season to you!!!!! And thank you for my 6th Christmas! Kasey

Each year I love to bring back this post from such a very special member who used to grace our boards. If you did not know DeanCarl, you missed one remarkable man. Each year it brings me comfort to read, once again, his inspirational words to all of us. When I was a kid I used to give my folks a Christmas wish list each year. We weren’t rich by any means, but some how some way a lot of what I wished for I got. So, in that spirit, here’s my “wish list” for this Christmas: My Christmas Wish List. For the newly diagnosed and those who have recently had a recurrence: May your fears be calmed, your strength renewed and your hopes be realized. For those in the midst of the battle: May your determination never falter and your days be filled with victory. For those who have lost loved ones: May your memories bring joy rather than pain and your days be filled with the spirit of those who have touched your lives. For those in remission: May your joy fill the lives of those around you and be a light for those that follow. For those who are nearing the end of the fight: May you find the courage to walk the path you are on and to see the glory in each new day. And for everyone who has so touched my life since I found this place: Whatever your situation, where ever you are may this Christmas season bring you all that your heart desires. Dean _________________ 9/21: dxd Squamous Cell Carsinoma (malignant). Stage IIIa. Mets to lymph nodes in and around RT lung. Tumor blocking airway to RT lung. Partialy colapsed RT lung. Diagnosis confirmed by bronchoscopy 10/6: Bone scan. Results: Negative 10/19: Testing done. Cancer in-operable (heavy involment of mediasternal lymph nodes), incurrable (maybe ). Decided on no chemo or heavy radiation. I'm going to live life while there's life to be lived, one glorious day at a time! Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away. (George Carlin)

Shame on me, Jamie ~ I missed this until now!!!! Hope it's not too late to celebrate with you. What wonderful, wonderful news, Jamie. You have no idea how extremely happy this makes me. Here's to a permanent relationship with NED. He's the BEST! XOXO, Kasey

I'm so happy you finally have something to be happy about! I know only too well what you mean by never being off the hook though. Sometimes I think ~ how terrible to live with this over one's head ALL the time ~ but then I realize I'm here to worry about it, so that is all good. Great to hear from you ~ sorry about all going on in your life that is problematic. Kasey

Oh so sorry, Ann. I just don't know why I didn't realize until this post that Dennis was only 50!!! Why that's just a baby! This disease is just plain evil. Good good thoughts are heading to Florida, Ann. Again ~ sorry just isn't quite enough to say. Kasey

I know only too well that feeling of loss. So sorry, Jan. Kasey

Sorry here too, Katy. Prayers for them AND for you, dear girl. Kasey

Hi Cody, I do not have the info you request, but wnted to take this opportunity to introduce myself. You see, I met your mother a few times. We have a group from the Phila/surrounding area who belong to this site and meet occasionally in King of Prussia for lunch. Your mother had lunch with us a few times. In fact, we even met your uncle too. She brought hom along one time. I was deply saddened when I heard about your mom. She had done well for so long I was betting she would be able to be one of the lucky ones to beat this terrible disease. I will research a bit to see if I can figure out the answer to your question. In the meantime, know your mother was so loved here and was inspirational to many of us. Bless you and your family - my thoughts and sympathy to you all. Good luck with your project. Kasey

You are right, Ginny, the outfits certainly DO dictate our activities!!!! Lucky you - have a great time! K

damn lc! K

It is so hard to believe that it's been 4 years, Ellie. Just impossible! I've said many times before that this disease we call lung cancer is nothing less than evil. I, too, remain hopeful for treatments to come along that will make a big impact for those touched by lc. I am certain Maura was so very special ~ as you are, Ellie. Perhaps her mold was broken, but a new one was created with YOU! Thinking of you. Kasey

Oh this one hurts . Thank you, Janet for posting. Lilly was a good friend of my niece, Tracy, while she was here and she became one of mine as well. I have noted her extended absence and, as always, when that happens I am hopeful for the best. Dammit, I am just plain angry. My heartfelt sentiments will be with her family and her precious children. I personally know haw difficult it is for young ones to lose a mother. This just leaves me with nothing else much to say. My best to you, Janet. Hope you are doing well. Kasey

What wonderful news, Judy. Your absence was duly noted and I must admit ~ a little worrisome. So it is grand, indeed, to hear you are in Hawaii!!! Say hi to Ned while you are there and be sure to bring us back some souvenirs ! kasey

Ah susan ~ how very sad to read your news. Please know how very sorry I am. You've been such an advocate and support - more than you did for your wonderful mother could not have been done by anyone. I am hopeful that the many wonderful memories of this very special mother will offer you some bit of comfort during these most difficult times. I lost my own mother at age 38 and am still lost without her (and I am OLD now) so I understand the road ahead without having her. You and your family have been in our prayers here since I read the news of your mom's downturn. You will remain there and hope knowing that so many people care for you and support may bring you some comfort as well. Kasey

Oh Nova ~ I DO remember you. You are one of our lost family memebers returning home and I, for one, and happy to see you ~ though not for the reason you are here. I have not lost a spouse but fear I would be one of those who would have much difficulty getting on with life. I've no advice for you. I just have a warm feeling seeing you here and hope that knowing you are loved here and many are lifting you up ~ albeit via cyberspace ~ may be of some help. The one thing I've heard that is a must ~ not saying you must do it since these are not my words ~ is to keep as busy as possible. For me, I think that would be difficult for I can't imagine wanting to do anything ~ let alone LOTS of things. You are in my heart, Nova, and I will just hang onto hope that with some more time things will improve and you'll be able to find some enjoyment in everyday life again. In the meantime, know I'll be hoping/wishing the best for you. Life is hard and cancer stinks. Kasey

Much love and many prayers being sent your way, Nonni. Hoping a kidney will miraculously be availalel. I DO believe. Kasey

Good morning, Judy!! I'm not usually in 'here' but wanted to share in the beautiful morning with you. It is sunny and just shy of crisp this AM and I LOVE it. Fall - my very favorite season. Penn State football at noon just makes it perfect. Anyhow, glad we can spend this time together and glad you're having a good visit. And BTW - aren't grandsons just awesome when they actually become people and carry on real conversations with you ? Kasey

WOW!!!!!! I LOVE this, guys. And I love you both too. Way to go! Wish the segment could have been even longer and get you in it too, Maryanne ! Too long - no see. Love, Kasey

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Beautiful, beautiful, beautiful, Eric!!! Makes Fred and me want to take a trip!!!! What scenery! Kasey

HAPPY HAPPY HAPPY for you, Barb. I SO wanna be you in 4 more years. Love your hubby too! Really got a smile out of the store being out of 10 year LC anniversary cards. WOOHOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Kasey PS: MISS seeing you here!

Hoping that Hospice allows you both to enjoy MUCH MUCH more time together, Katy. Thinking of you both. Kasey