My mom (age 79) has recently been informed that it appears that she has stage IV lung cancer. Mets to spine - pain in back was what started all of this. Then after PET scan a lung lesion was found (no other organ involvement). Thursday this week she has a biopsy to confirm the diagnosis.
My question is regarding care. She is in a lot of pain in her back right now but other than that, is doing OK and able to get around, cook, etc. - though her activities are much less than previous mainly due to the pain and some weakness in her legs.
I expect that shortly after the biopsy we then begin to understand the treatment options, etc. and I expect that chemo is likely (right?). My dad passed away 8 years ago (T cell lymphoma also diagnosed at Stage IV) and mom lives alone. I've been spending time with her every day, but not all day. Will I need to plan for someone being with her all day, every day, at least in the initial stages of chemo? Any thoughts on what I need to plan for regarding her care? I have two brothers in the area and I am hopeful between the three of us we can be there when she needs us.
Any thoughts on this would be greatly appreciated! If more specific information is needed before you can help just let me know that and I will check back once I have more details.