My gosh,
I am so sorry to hear this. I hope that your journey here is positive and painless. My mom has also just been diagnosed and luckily for her she remains node negative, however, she had an upper left lobectomy and has had many complications. She is only 68/and no real medical issues to speak of. She's developed 15-pounds of edema, two blood clots, one to the right lung and lower extremity and atrial fibrillation. We are not really getting any satisfied answers. I don't even know what to ask. For something that seemed so early, it has turned out to be so complicated. I don't know where to turn.
Wishing you much luck and prayers for you,
Melissa