Nitescan

Melanie So very sorry to hear of your dx being as long as it was. I'm totally at a loss for words here, also angry, downright p-o'd about the system failing you on your dx's. As with my wife, I just wish I could take all this pain/suffering away from everybody. Remember there's only one being that can tell/show you how long you have to live. I hope your husband comes to grips with what he's doing to his loved one. I feel we become each others support center as we move into & thru treatment, each having a vital role in how we progress. With that being said I hope your husband seeks some counseling for helping you deal with cancer, it isn't your fault, you didn't ask to be strick'n with it, you didn't sign up for it, you certainly didn't want it! My heart goes out to you & I hope your husband gets his head screwed on straight soon! I hope maybe he will read some of the boards on this site! Keep on go'n Melanie, my thoughts & prayers are for you! Marc

Hi, I just wanted to say to all of you that I think the finest people walking on earth today is all of you here! Having been a caregiver for my wife the last 6yrs with her cancers. We were inseparable the whole time, like alot of you are here, or so it seems anyway, days are so empty, I know she is not suffering anymore. I have done alot of research & read alot of forums & I think this is the best site there is! I will tell you more later about our fight that we finally lost just last week, but I really wanted to tell you what I think of you all! Well....thanks for listening, will try not to be a stranger & fill in more blanks as the days go by!