Hi Dani! Wow you've come to the right place. There is a ton of great support on this site.
Also, I would encourage you to friend me on Facebook (Frank Sierawski in Omaha, NE) and I can get you plugged into the Facebook group for ALK+ patients and caregivers (ALKies Worldwide). There are over 500 people in this *private* FB group now and it's a really great community for sharing treatment information, bouncing ideas and thoughts off others in similar situations, and just a place to release your cancer frustrations where others won't judge! Also, there are a fairly large number of folks on this site who are also in their 30's who you'll be able to connect with, which is important as well.