Sarah:
Glad you posted a message. YOu are going to be great support for your mother. Briefly, I was 51 when I was diagnosed with stage 3a adenocarcinoma (oct 2002). I had a large tumor (10 cm) in my right lung and the option of surgery was not possible at that point. My oncologist said he could shrink the tumor so I could have surgery and he did it with CISPLATIN! I had to be careful of becoming dehydrated during the 12 week treatment because I was nauseated much of the time, even with meds. Everyone is diferent and others I know of did not have this problem at all. What I did during this time was go into myt Dr's office for extra fluids every day or so. Fatigue is just a way of life with cancer. Excuse for many naps. Anyway, the Cisplatin sharank the tumor dramatically, so I could have surgery in February. It was not painful, I felt great after a few weeks; the upper lobe of my right lung was removed. The pathology reports after the surgery were all negative and there was never any lymph node involvement. I did decide to follow my oncologist's suggestion and am now having preventative chemothrapy and radiation to my mediastinum. Basically what I want to say to you is "THere is hope, always" There is so much this chemotherapy can do for us that no one could do several years ago. I am thankful that Cisplatin was there for me. I consider it now my friend on this trip through cancer land.
God Bless you and your mother.
Joanne
Diagnosed 10-02 adenocarcinoma Stage IIIa, inoperable
No lymph node involvement
12 weeks Cisplatin and Gymspar
Surgery 2-03; negative pathology report - clear
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