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Lisa66

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    Lisa66 reacted to Tomm in Durvalumab   
    Lisa66       enjoy the greatest new lung cancer drug with curative intent
    this is true at my house

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    Lisa66 reacted to Sillycat1957 in Durvalumab   
    Hi Lisa66,
    Welcome to our club! I've been a luker for some time, I just had #18 I'm feeling a little blah, but somewhat optimistic! I had my 9 months CT Scan and my tumor is now down to a mere 8mm.
    So yay me! Everytime I think no way I hate this treatment, it's not working why am I torturing myself! I get good news. Then I change my attitude. So just know that we here have been thru things that you will probably experience, so be sure to check in. I wish you well on your journey!
    Take care, have a great weekend, stay safe 😃
    I don't know any cool jokes like Tomm
    "keep your face to the sunshine and you cannot see a shadow"
    Namaste, Roseann
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    Lisa66 got a reaction from Barb1260 in Durvalumab   
    Hi all, 
    I am new to the Durva club. It is a club I would not have thought of six months ago, but my reality has changed since then.
    Barb, I was done with radiation on the twelfth of March and chemo on the 15th of March and now started on durvalumab a couple of weeks ago. I had a rough time of it with chemo and radiation and was like you, I just wanted to go somewhere and not think about cancer. We live in NC and was able to go to Myrtle beach when it reopened and it was wonderful. Take a little weekend and go somewhere it is good for the soul I think. 
    Lisa
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    Lisa66 got a reaction from Tom Galli in Durvalumab   
    Hi all, 
    I am new to the Durva club. It is a club I would not have thought of six months ago, but my reality has changed since then.
    Barb, I was done with radiation on the twelfth of March and chemo on the 15th of March and now started on durvalumab a couple of weeks ago. I had a rough time of it with chemo and radiation and was like you, I just wanted to go somewhere and not think about cancer. We live in NC and was able to go to Myrtle beach when it reopened and it was wonderful. Take a little weekend and go somewhere it is good for the soul I think. 
    Lisa
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    Lisa66 got a reaction from Rower Michelle in Durvalumab   
    Hi all, 
    I am new to the Durva club. It is a club I would not have thought of six months ago, but my reality has changed since then.
    Barb, I was done with radiation on the twelfth of March and chemo on the 15th of March and now started on durvalumab a couple of weeks ago. I had a rough time of it with chemo and radiation and was like you, I just wanted to go somewhere and not think about cancer. We live in NC and was able to go to Myrtle beach when it reopened and it was wonderful. Take a little weekend and go somewhere it is good for the soul I think. 
    Lisa
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    Lisa66 reacted to Tom Galli in How to Help Someone with Lung Cancer / by Katie Brown   
    Five superb ways to help!
     
    I'd add one: Try to find a way to remind your physicians and medical staff who treat you that you are a person, not a patient.  A patient is a "thing".  Too many of us are treated like things.
     
    Stay the course.
     
    Tom
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    Lisa66 reacted to NikoleV in How to Help Someone with Lung Cancer / by Katie Brown   
    How to Help Someone with Lung Cancer
    June 11th, 2013 - by Katie Brown
    http://blog.lungevity.org/2013/06/11/ho ... ng-cancer/
    I’ve been thinking a lot about Lori Hope lately. In case you didn’t have the pleasure of knowing her IRL or online, here is a link that will give you a little more information about who Lori was.
    Lori was a lung cancer survivor who defied odds and outlived her prognosis. She was such an inspiration and source of hope to so many people in the cancer community. She was a rare soul. She was a cancer survivor who thought about others. I’ve known my share of cancer survivors who thought only of themselves. She often thought of those newly diagnosed and about their families. She wanted to leave this world a better place than when she was diagnosed and I admired her so much for how huge her heart was. Lori died September 2012 and is very missed by so many.
    Lori’s book. Help Me Live: 20 Things People With Cancer Want You To Know has been a reference for so many of us who support patients and families. A copy of that book sits on a shelf above my desk. I see it every day when I walk into my office.
    Today it’s inspired me to write my own list; a list specific to lung cancer.
    HOW TO HELP SOMEONE WITH LUNG CANCER
    Life’s financial burdens, family, children, employers and household chores don’t disappear when a lung cancer diagnosis happens. Navigating the medical process and surviving treatments and side effects are added to the mountain of responsibilities a person typically has.
    These are just 5 simple ways that you can help someone you care about who’s been diagnosed with lung cancer.
    1. Don’t ask if they smoked.
    Instead, show them that you care. Empathy and sympathy comes easier to those who’ve been diagnosed with other types of cancers. With lung cancer there are misconceptions about the disease and who can get it. Some people may believe that lung cancer is solely a preventable disease and don’t know that all you need to get lung cancer are lungs. There may be blame or even guilt associated with a lung cancer diagnosis. While lifestyle can play a part with any health issue, it isn’t your place to assess the cause of their lung cancer or place any blame upon them. When you learn of someone’s lung cancer diagnosis you need to decide whether or not you’re going to be a part of their supporting team.
    In one interview, Lori Hope mentioned how “OK” it was to say that a person’s diagnosis was “unfair”. Saying a diagnosis is unfair lets the patients know that you care; you understand that it could happen to anyone and that there is no blame placed upon the patient for their diagnosis.
    2. Listen.
    Listen to the patient. Some patients are blessed with family members and friends who will become caregivers and can support them throughout their lung cancer experience. Everyone wants to help and sometimes the wishes of the patient and even how they are feeling emotionally about their health and future can get lost in the day to day responsibilities. Don’t forget to include the patient in every aspect of decision making unless they defer all responsibility of that task to a specific person. Don’t forget to ask how the patient is doing and listen to the patient talk about how they are feeling about their situation. It’s ok not to know what to say or not have any answers. Just listen.
    Listen for the patient. Doctors’ appointments, treatments, procedures and life changes are overwhelming. It can be difficult emotionally to process all the things coming at you. Ask the patient to designate a healthcare advocate or “listener”. This person will go to doctor’s appointments, writes down questions and answers and records side effects and anything else the patient is experiencing and act as a liaison between the patient and their doctors.
    3. Share hopeful stories and experiences.
    Don’t talk about how you lost someone to cancer to someone who’s just been diagnosed with it. The idea is to inspire and offer encouragement, not instill fear or dread or even false hope. If you don’t have any real positive stories of people surviving cancer, find some survivor stories to share and talk about everything else. Your conversations needn’t revolve around cancer all of the time.
    4. Don’t ask. DO.
    “Let me know if I can help.” You’ve probably said these words many times in your lifetime in many different circumstances. Did you mean it then? Do you mean it now? There are so many things people can do to help, but the patient and their family will rarely ask for help. And saying those words simply puts the onus back onto the patient and off your shoulders.
    Actions speak louder than words. Set up a meal train or a chore chart among family and friends. Schedule a specific task and do it. Then do it again or do something else but keep helping as often as you can. A person diagnosed with lung cancer can use all the support and help you have to offer for the duration of their treatments and recovery. You’d want people to do the same for you.
    5. Seek outside support.
    If you don’t have time to spare to take on responsibilities and physically help the patient, there are still ways you can help. You can research to find outside resources to help support the patient and their family. You can find volunteer organizations who offer rides to treatments, you can contact churches and groups to mow lawns and do light housekeeping and deliver meals. You can even find cancer support groups and mentors/support buddies for the patient. Ask them what their needs are and work to help fulfill them. You can find a listing of resources on the LUNGevity Caregiver Resource Center.
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