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I think like bbabs says , im sorry you needed this support in the first place , but these guys really helped me through the worst time of my adult life , we have all been / going through similar experiences ourselves so anything we can do to support you just let us know , its hard i know , but keep spirits up around you , and around your relative , it helped me and my grandfather .

i was looking for some cheer and i found this , a man wants to change the world and make everyone care for each other , having a fun time trying , check it out http://www.bbc.co.uk/shropshire/feature ... hive.shtml

Once again i would like to thank you all for your wonderful messages of support . it has been a month now since my grandfather passed , and im feeling a little better . i am hoping to do a sponsored run to raise money for cancer research , and hope to do this every year in order to help all people who have had experience with this terrible thing . i hope evryone here is ok , best wishes to all of you who have been so nice to me .

once again you all need a thank you for taking the time to reply to me , i am having a particularly bad day today , knew i could come here and say how im feeling and no one would judge , his funeral is on wednesday , i am going to get flowers today , as he was an amazing gardener , i have som lovely orange tulips in the shape of a flower for him , i would like to get to know you all better as you all seem so very very nice , are any of you in the uk at all ?? heres hoping we all feel better very soon ... xx

PLEASE PLEASE LET THIS ONE GET THROUGH THANK YOU TO ALL OF YOU , MY GRANDFATHER FRANK JACKSON PASSED AWAY ON SUNDAY NIGHT , BUT I WAS ABLE TO SPEND THE WEEKEND HELPING WITH HIS NURSING , AND TELLING HIM HOW MUCH HE MEANT TO ME , BECAUSE SO MANY PEOPLE IN THIS FORUM TOLD ME THIS WAS WHAT WOULD BE BEST , AND IT HAS HELPED ME TREMENDOUSLY..TO KNOW I SAID WHAT I NEEDED AND TO KNOW HE HEARD ME , HE RUBBED MY HAND AND OPENED HIS EYES TO SEE ME , AND IT MEANT EVRYTHING TO ME . WHEN I FEEL BETTER I SHALL COME BACK HERE AND HOPEFULLY PASS ON SOME SUPPORT TO OTHERS ... THANKYOU ALL SO MUCH

well i thought i would just look back at my post to see if it had been viewed only to find all of your responses , after i mopped up the tears from them all i sat and thought posatively about what i could do for him , and how i could make the most of our time together , and if it wasnt for you wonderful people who took the time to write , i may never have felt posative about this ........ i just wanted to say thank you all from the bottom of my heart . i shall go and spend every spare minute i get with him .... ohh and i found a book , " book of a grandparent " which has questions in which you can add to about their life , some very uplifting topics in there .... may i pass this info on to anyone who needs it ..... once again thankyou all ..xx i have never been a very religous person but tonight i shall pray for each and every one of you going through the same feelings as me , and everyone who had passed on to something better ... xx

my grandfather of 83, the only gentleman i have ever known , has just been diagnosed with lung cancer , he has never smoked and has led more of an active life than all the people i know , i dont know what kind of cancer, all i know is he is unaware ( wishes of other family members ) and he has only months left , today is his birthday , and may be his last .... i am utterly lost , i cannot find a gift that even hints at how much i love him , how much he has had an effect on all my life ... how do you buy a present for someone like this when every gift seems pointless....... any help /advice ...anything .would be appreciated as ive never been through anything like this before ..