(((Amie)))
Oh I know how much it hurts. I am quickly coming the the 1 year date
of Alan's passing, and there are so many things I have yet to do.
They are all pieces of him, just as they are all pieces of your mom.
Everytime I "liquidated" something of Alan's it felt as if I lost him
all over again. There is only so much your heart can take. So do
only what your heart can handle. Let the tears storm come, because
they help you heal. (My therapist, God love her as she is saving my life.
has helped me embrace my tear stroms). It hurts becaused we loved them
so much. I wish I could tell you it gets easier, and maybe some day it
will. I am not sure when that happens, but until then we are here for
you.