jenny! I know how scary and sad a recurrance is, but please look below at my mother's history! sounds a lot like your dad, and she is doing great!! she had a resection in 2000, then lost her whole lung last year when the cancer came back in the same lung. the surgery really put her through the ringer, and she couldn't have chemo as planned, but now she's living life on the Tarceva train, with no oxygen. so don't lose hope!! we're here, and we can support you, so you, in turn, can support your dad. that's what this place did for me, anyway.
xoxo
amie