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melindasue37

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  1. Today would have been my Moms 70th birthday.

    All these 1st "holidays" without her seem to be bombarding me right now. Mothers day, her birthday and tomorrow would have been her and my stepdads anniversary.

    For the first time in 39 years I can't call her and wish her a happy birthday.

    Happy Birthday Mom. I really miss you today.

  2. Oh Kelly...I was just checking your last post regarding hospice to see if there was an update when I saw this.

    I'm am just so sorry. Your Mom fought such a fight. And you were right there along side her fighting just as hard.

    There is nothing that can make you feel better right now. Just take it one moment at a time and get through the next few very difficult days and then we will be here for you when you need us.

    Praying for all of you.

    Warm Hugs,

    Melinda

  3. I was just wondering about Pat (patkid).

    It has been so long since I've seen a post from her.

    If you see this, please let us know how you're doing Pat.

  4. Kelly,

    I keep typing and erasing because I know how difficult all this must be for you. There is just no words that seem appropriate. I'm so sorry that it is time for hospice to enter your lives. I'm thinking of all of you and saying a prayer for peace and strength for you, your Mom and family.

    Warm Hugs,

    Melinda

  5. Oh, I can feel your pain!!

    Everywhere you look you see Mothers day being advertised.

    I went to Walmart and accidentally walked down the Mothers Day card aisle, didn't make it out without crying.

    I am really dreading Sunday. I want to fast forward to Monday too. They say it will get easier for us Kim....one day at a time I guess.

  6. I suggest asking your hospice nurse for a pamplet called "Gone From My Sight." It is full of information that will be very helpful for you.

    Here is what it says regarding eating....

    Food is the way we energize our body. It is the means by which we keep our body going, moving, alive. We eat to live. When a body is preparing to die, it is perfectly natural that eating should stop. This is one of the hardest concepts for a family to accept.

    There is a gradual decrease in eating habits. Nothing tastes good. Cravings come and go. Liquids are preferred to solids. "I just don't feel like eating." Meats are the first to go, followed by vegetables and other hard to digest foods until even soft foods are no longer eaten.

    It is okay not to eat. A different kind of energy is needed now. A spiritual energy, not a physical one, will sustain from here on.

    I hope this helps just a little bit. I'm so sorry for what you are going through. Try to stay strong and know I am thinking of you and your family.

    Warm Hugs,

    Melinda

  7. I won't even tell you what I refer to my stepdads "friend" as.....I don't think the system would allow me to anyway :D

    I think you should sit down with both your Dad and Becky and explain how you feel. She needs to know how delicate of a subject this is. Maybe all of you could come up with a title that makes everyone happy.

  8. What a wonderful idea to go to the restaurant where you and Earl shared such happy memories. I'll toast a glass of wine for both of you tonight. Thinking of you, Ginnie....

    Warm Hugs,

    Melinda

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