Hi Lindy
Welcome!
My dad is going through the same thing. He was diagnosed in November and they did the whole brain radiation. The plan was to do chemo after the radiation to the head. But the radiation to my dad’s tumors did not do anything at all (which the doctors say is really rare) so they have decided not to do any chemo at all and just work with medication and Palliative care.
My dad was of the same thought and did not initially want chemo but was willing to try one session before we found out that it was not possible. When I originally spoke to my Dad about trying the chemo I told him about how far advances have come that chemo is not as bad as it used to be and that they have all kinds of new meds to counter act symptoms. This helped and he was willing to try it.
So don’t give up!
Trish