Hello all. Haven't posted much, but have read alot. My mother finished her chemo, radiation and wbr in September and was told she was cancer free. She went for her 3 month cat scan and it showed new nodules. Now she needs to go for a pet scan. My mother and I never saw eye to eye about anything. (I was never as good as my baby brother)I seem to be the only one willing help her.She lives very close to me and I'm at her house at least twice a day and call all the time. If I don't, I get told "I could be dead here and no one would know or care" I do care. I just can't be there all the time. I work 50 hours a week, have a husband and 4 kids. Now for the part I feel guilty about..why isn't what I do ever enough? Why can't we have a loving mother/daughter relationship? I've tried and nothing seems to work! Sorry to ramble, but can't talk to my family about this it would upset them too much.
sparx