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Flowergirlie

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  1. Peggy, I am so sorry for your suffering and the loss of your mom and now to have your brother diagnosed, it does seem too much for someone to have to endure. My thoughts are with you during this difficult time. I wish I could say more to help you through. Flowergirlie
  2. Tanner...I wish I could offer you the most comforting sentiments in the world to help you get through this but those words do not exist. What does Karen say? I only ask that because I know my hubby's state of mind changed to acceptance and he came to peace with it and that helped to comfort me. I am sorry you are going through this. I know how painful it is to hear and accept what you have been told and to not be able to do anything to make it better, even for a second. I have a lot to share with you if you want. Please PM me if I can help you get through or for any reason if you want to talk is fine. Hugs to you and family...Flowergirlie
  3. My understanding is that radiating the lungs can be a tremendous help with SOB. I am sorry you both are going through this as I know how hard and trying it is. Peace and comfort to you both. Flowergirlie
  4. We always love great news. Hope it is a wonderful trip for your mom. Peace...Flowergirlie
  5. Welcome to this wonderful community and thank you sfor sharing your touching sentiments. I hope all goes well with your sister. Peace...Flowergirlie
  6. Can you take the girls with you to be with Karen during the tests? Do you have anyone you know who can take the girls so you can be there? Just some thoughts. I know how good it feels to be able to be there for the tests as a support and also for Karen to know you are there. Otherwise I wish I could be there to help you out. The kids are so wonderful in our lives so I know how hard it is to keep the fine balance. Sending all of you warm thoughts and hugs. Peace...Flowergirlie
  7. Do you know how the chemo is working so far? Are you having indications of improvements? My hubby had sclc so I do not know with nsclc but if you are experiencing severe side effects, I would definitely discuss with your doc to see what his plan is so you know what to anticipate at least. Hope it goes well. Peace...Flowergirlie
  8. My hubby had a tough experience with WBR. I think it is good that you have more time to anticipate what affects it may have and that should help. My hubby was no longer able to eat once he started WBR and it seemed like none of the doctors were able to figure out why or offer any help. Things to look for based on our experience would be: lack of appetite, bathroom problems, severe dizziness, off balance/ falling. I hope it all goes well though. I know some people handle it just fine and hopefully that is how it will be. Peace...Flowergirlie
  9. I am so sorry for all you are going through. I often wonder why we all have to go through so much suffering. Flowergirlie
  10. I think it is great that the party can go on. What better way to show love and support from everyone? It is OK if you cry. I know that through the last few days with my hubby when his friends had come into town and then family, the experiences were beautiful but so surreal and I laugh-cried through the whole time. It was so intense that I had to write about it in the midst of the evenings, but very special and unforgettable. I hope it all goes well and I am so sorry that you are going through this in the first place. My thoughts are with you and family. Flowergirlie
  11. Tanner, I am so sorry for what you are feeling. I remember feeling that same exact thing and wondering when it would be more normal again. I hope all goes well with the PET and CT. The anticipation of the tests and then having to wait for the results was almost more than we could bare. I would be in knots trying to pre guess the results and be hopeful yet prepared. If you can, just do something nice for yourselves (listen to a favorite song or snuggle or take a bath)...something simple that you both love and enjoy and take a lot of deep breaths. My thoughts are with you during this difficult time. Flowergirlie
  12. Pulling with you with warm thoughts and gentle hugs. Flowergirlie
  13. Welcome Jimbo. We are all here for you when you need us. Peace...Flowergirlie
  14. Welcome Dana. I hope you are able to figure out something that will work for your mom. My hubby liked milkshakes and sherbet, apples and bananas, and Boost/ Ensure was recommended by nurse. SCLC is a disease that can keep you on your toes for sure and it is nearly impossible to anticipate what might come up next but asking here is a wonderful way to get some thoughtful questions for your mom's doctor to help along the way. My best to you and mom. Peace...Flowergirlie
  15. Welcome Kathy. Sending you comfort and peace along this difficult journey. Peace...Flowergirlie
  16. Welcome Charlotte (and Jimmy). There is tremendous support here so use it to your advantage. I hope it all works in your favor with treatment. Peace...Flowergirlie
  17. Welcome, again, Nova. You already know how terrific it is here and that we will support you like crazy but always a good time to say hello anyway. Flowergirlie
  18. I am determined for you to win too. I am sorry you have to be here though. Peace...Flowergirlie
  19. Welcome KG! We are all here for you during this difficult time of unsurety. Please come here with all of your questions and any thoughts you want to share. Peace...Flowergirlie
  20. Welcome to this amazing community, Steve (and Kathy). I hope the treatment plan is working so far and that Kathy is feeling OK. This is a terrific resource for support and information. Take Care! Peace...Flowergirlie
  21. Hi Teri! Just sending positive thoughts to you and Bill. Hang in there! I know how hard it is when pinpointing the problem seems impossible. I know that the sodium level was a continuous issue with my hubby and can cause many problems, including the vomiting of blood (but I understand other things can cause vomiting blood too). The doctor didn't order the blood test that measured sodium all the time so I would ask if Bill has had that tested recently and what the result was. It is supposed to be in the 135-145 range (close to that anyway) to be considered normal. I hope today finds him feeling better. Rest is a good thing for both of you, if you can sneak some in. Take care and I am always here. Flowergirlie
  22. You are all in my thoughts. Hoping with you that it is not cancer. Peace...Flowergirlie
  23. (((Missy))) I really understand what you are saying and it is a great time to listen to what your mom has to say and love her up. I know it is hard to hear her accepting what is going on. I know that my hubby wanted to get to this acceptance time so badly and was hesitating because he felt like we were not OK with it. Once he understood that we would always love him and remember him but knew he was tired of all of the pain and suffering and told him it was OK to go, he said he was ready to let go and he was quite peaceful from then on. It was a very spiritual time for us both (our whole family) and I learned a lot. I had a dream where I was told it was time for him to leave and then a few days later he told me it was time for him to go. It is so hard, and so sad, and not what we want, and I am sorry you are going through this, but sometimes the ones we love so much are ready and we have to allow that to happen. Sending thoughts that your mom and entire family can find peace and comfort during this time. Hugs...Flowergirlie
  24. Hi Nova, Well it is positive that he is wanting to go back to work I would think. I know that while my hubby was getting disability, we received a letter saying that he could work without losing his benefits and I am pretty sure that is a new permanent option so they may just adjust the amount you receive because I do not think you can collect SSI while you are working. Flowergirlie
  25. Hi Laurie, My hubby did get lumps on his neck as well as down his side and in his shoulder area too. They would just show up randomly and would stay for indefinite periods of time. The oncologist did not test them specifically. This happened semi frequently actually and always was a concern to us as well. Sending you thoughts of hope and peace during this time. Flowergirlie
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