Flowergirlie

I am SOOOOOOOOOOO sorry! I wish you as much comfort as you can handle right now. Hugs...Flowergirlie

It stops you from doing anything so why wouldn't it stop the tumors and cancer? Seriously though, I wish it had worked on my hubby. But, it did help him get through many tough periods of his treatment, definitely! I am a complete advocate for the benefits of marijuana! I have been reading about it for years and it can help tremendously and anyone who can not see that by now is not paying attention. Thanks for sharing the information! Flowergirlie

Hey Teri! I did some research on Zeolite and have to say that it *seemed* like the only information I could find was from advertisements. I was interested in finding something that was the secret wonder cure but became skeptical when I read somewhere that there was no known benefit in the treatment of cancer. Also, as a side note, the place I was telling you about that does hyperthermia, the doctor there is involved in a number of law suits for negligence, so I didn't bother sending you the link, sorry. I will PM you soon but I have been sorta away. Hugs...Flowergirlie

I absolutely think you did the right thing. You can NEVER go back in time and undo what you could have done and with the future being so uncertain for us all, we should delight in the opportunities to live life to the fullest, everyday. I hope it all is going well. Without the visits from ALL of my hubby's closest friends and family, a lot of questions would have gone unanswered so unfortunately. I have no regrets with making it happen. Peace...Flowergirlie

Well, we always get more than we need at the times when it is least convenient, isn't that how it is? I am sorry, Missy! I wish I could tell you the right thing to make it easier. I think you have been a loving daughter through this. You can pick your friends but not your sister or her boyfriend. Being judgemental can really bite someone in the a**, some words I have chosen to live by. Live and let live. I hope your mom finds her peaceful place soon. Flowergirlie

Most oncologists have some sort of weekend on-call staff. You might consider calling and asking what to do. If narcotics are not helping with the pain, maybe there is something else that would help...??? Any problems with getting enough air in? My husband had some severe SOB and breathing pain too but that is because of the cancer. Not really good information for you, Sorry, but offering warm thoughts to you this afternoon. I hope it gets better. Flowergirlie

I just was reading about something similar that can be applied to what you are experiencing right now and that is, if you are not allowing yourself to feel what is going on deep down inside then you will suffer longer and if you allow yourself to experience these feelings, you can work through them and experience personal growth. It is easier said probably but the personal growth each of us must do during our lives can not be ignored even when we would rather ignore it. We are all here for you. Flowergirlie

Hi Steph! Just sending you thoughts of peace and comfort. Welcome to the best lung cancer community. Flowergirlie

Just wanted to say welcome. I think it is a good idea also to go and help him get set up if he is going to be staying in Texas. It will become more and more imortant for you to have access to what is going on with treatment plans, scans and any other information that may arise. At least if you go and see what is going on, what is offered and available as resources to help your dad, it will help both of you feel more comfortable. Best to you and your dad. We are all here for you. Flowergirlie

Good Evening! I don't know, it might be a good idea to look into some options. If you are anything like my hubby was, our puppy was great therapy and kept him smiling on the toughest of days. He would long to see her face again on the days he had chemo and couldn't bring her with him so, with that said, if Capullo is like this for you, and I am guessing he is, lining someone up to be on standby in the event of an emergency would be good for your peace of mind but without making the changeover unless it became necessary. Maybe someone who could do some dogsitting to see if it was a good fit. All the best to you! I hope for you to be able to enjoy much more time with Capullo and all of your loved ones. Peace...Flowergirlie

(((Grace))) I know it is so hard. I am so sorry we are all going through our own individual battles. It seems too much to handle, too overwhelming to be able to manage. Try to be easy on yourself. Have you asked for some help with these "guy" things and the basement flooding from someone you know? I have also had to figure out how some things work and what they even are, not to mention managing the boys who seem to think that I am suddenly a weak pushover. I feel it with you, everyday. I am so sorry! Hugs...Flowergirlie

I would definitely try to get some questions answered before you go into the weekend and have a more difficult time finding a real person. That was something that was very frustrating to me because my hubby had some very painful complaints and the oncologist would ask my hubby why he was having these pains and wouldn't do anything about any of them. Who's the doctor? If we knew what was causing them, why would we have asked? You have a need to know what is causing your mom's pains and ask if someone can please give some answers and offer some help for the problem. At least if you need to take her to the ER, they most likely will find the problem and probably anything else going on too. Best wishes for your mom and of course you too. Flowergirlie

Please keep us posted with your mom's results. Congratulations on your new little precious! My thoughts are with you during this stressful time. Flowergirlie

It is very admirable and responsible to be aware and concerned about the future for your family, of course, but not worry about it too much. I am/ was on the other side of the scope and what I really wanted was for my husband to be as happy as he could be. Sometimes it meant something he REALLY wanted and other times there was no way to achieve any happiness. It is important to be good to yourself, maybe splurge a little on something that is not a necessity once in a while, if you can afford to. It balances out. Money is not the most important thing in the world. I can say this easier than done, I KNOW, but if you can try to live life as much as possible everyday without basing everything on what your next scan shows, maybe it will help you with your decision making...??? I am VERY sorry you are going through this. Hugs...Flowergirlie

Hi Bobby, I have not hear of that but it does spark my curiosity because it seems like most doctors jump on the latest bandwagon in spite of what is working. Perhaps, in fact I am pretty sure, there are these less common treatments out there that are more effective. Please keep us posted on your sisters treatment (I know you will ). I think about you and sis often. Peace...Flowergirlie

Welcome to our wonderful community of compassionate, loving and understanding people. It is such a tough road to have to travel but knowing others that can answer questions or relate does ease the fear of the journey. I am happy to read that your mother is doing well. Peace...Flowergirlie

Two weeks today. The past 2 days have been emotionally tough. I am hiding from my grief behind so many different things and then it all comes crashing in on me. Our anniversary was just 4 days after his passing and it was a day of loving reflection. I have not changed ANYTHING since he passed. I just leave it all as it was because it triggers my emotions so much. My mom is leaving to go home tomorrow and it will be the first I have been forced to deal with things on my own terms. I am sure it is a good thing but is scary. I am again so thankful for this site because I like to be a support for everyone that I can. I really feel empty inside though. I miss him so much! We were so much entangled in our life adventure and I feel like half of my being is missing or something. I love our fabulous memories but my soul aches at his loss every second of every day. Thank you all for your ongoing support, warm wishes, hugs, prayers, kind thoughts...and sending the same to all of you. Flowergirlie

Happy Anniversary (((Shirley))). I know it is so hard, ours just passed a week ago too and it was very reflective for me. I hope you have comfort and peace during this time. Flowergirlie

Yes! Way to go Mitchell! I am so super proud of you STILL! Flowergirlie

Thanks Andrea, for your wonderful contribution and compassionate ways. You are appreciated and make such a difference for others! Flowergirlie

Will she drink milkshakes? Does she still want to eat? Sometimes during treatment it is so uncomfortable that there is just no desire anymore for eating. If that is the case, you may want to speak to her doctor or a trusted nurse about it. Another thought, is she having the bathroom blues? Could constipation or bloating or excessive gas be an issue? I hope your mom starts to feel better. Hugs...Flowergirlie

When we went to the nutritionist, she told us that it is projected 1 in 3 people will end up with some sort of cancer because of our diets and that it is easily avoidable. After pondering the concept and doing a bit of reading, I see how our fast paced society could be assisting us in a cancer diagnosis because we are just not getting proper nutrition. The key to good health is through our colon, if that helps anyone, and too much meat can inhibit that. Cheers...Flowergirlie

Hi Loretta...I am so sorry you and your hubby are going through this. My hubby had SOB much of the time as well. Chemo treatment helped but, as we were told, because of the nature of cancer, it could be an ongoing issue that has to be dealt with. I am sure your oncologist can make some suggestions. We received the in home oxygen tank but my husband wasn't wanting it so it also depends on what feels comfortable to each individual. My husband was also HORRIBLY itchy in the same places. That is so strange that it is in the same places because oncologist, nurses, nobody knew what was causing it. I thought it was a reaction to chemo or something but it never went away and actually got worse during WBR. It was accompanied by a slightly raised rash but was not bedsores or anything. They were itchy, sometimes burning and always unpleasant to him. Nothing seemed to help except for epsom salt baths. Sending you both warm hugs. I hope things improve for you both. Flowergirlie

Good advice given but if I can stress one thing, that would be the SUPPORT issue. I think you are on the right track with the doctor. I know my husband was wanting to go full speed ahead with treatment when talking to the doctor and friends but to me he would say how tired he was of fighting and feeling so horrible everyday. I told him that I understood and was in agreement with whatever he needed to do. Some people have a way of showing you their best all the time but may be feeling like that is what is expected...I do not know what the case is with your mom but my warmest thoughts are being sent to you and your mom in all of the coming days. We are always here for you. Gentle Hugs...Flowergirlie

I am so sorry your mother is not doing well. I wish there was something perfect to say and make it better. It is so hard for us to cope when something is beyond what we can change. Please know that we are here for you all the time. Cancer can be so unpredictable. Sending you, Mom and family warm thoughts of comfort and peace. Hugs...Flowergirlie