I have never posted on this website. I have always read. My uncle was diagnosed with stage 3b lung cancer. At the time, the oncologist told is that this was no big deal and they would be able to take care of it. Well, he was diagnosed on March 5, 2006. Four months later, he was in the hospital, having lost about 50 pounds, unable to swallow anything...and very confused. My beloved uncle passed away on July 4, 2006. I have so may questions: why was the oncologist not more honest? has anyone ever had experience with a rapid decline like that? I am so angry and confused. Please help.