My fiance who I have been with for 15years only 36 in age last week were told "you have Lung cancer" like some people how did this happen he does not smoke in great shape and eats good,we knew was wrong but thinking something else never this,I wanted to choke the oncologist because I could not believe not just the awful news but how he presented it you feel so helpless. We did seek a 2nd opinion from mayo and they reviewed what our oncologist is doing and agree with how he is going to treat this,we felt because the way the oncologist(the grim reaper we call him) presented this I felt like he was just going to just let him get thru the next few months/year and live out what ever time he has not not fight for him. They feel because he out of the norm that we could do very well for a long time and I have that faith in him,I just need to hear some positives from other people out there and I really need to talk.
