you guys are great. I know this is early for me and so many of you and your family members are going through the real thing. It will forever amaze me that anyone has the energy to step in and hold my hand too!
I know from going through IVF that it is very easy to lose time to the wrong treatment and the wrong doctor. There I am the expert and I spend lots of time reaching in on my 2 favorite boards and cyber kidnapping .. making sure that women and couples get the right treatment .. in IVF at least, the state of the art is horribly uneven.
When it came to my sister we were told she would never wake up from her c-section -- she threw footlong clots into her heart and lungs and was severely hypoxic for 45 minutes. We found some amazing brain researchers and she did wake up, and managed to talk a little, knew we were there. 5 months later she died, but with her humanity intact. We don't know what killed her. Her brain was so broken it may have jsut forgotten how to beat her heart.
And so I am on a quest here.. to get the best information soonest. My first doctors said I'd never have kids. If I had listened, I'd never have had mine.
Now I need to be a troublemaker, seeker again. Roadmaps are so very welcome! I wish none of us were here. I wish I were here as the 5 year expert. I am, however, a mess after 5 days.