vjackman

I can relate to how you feel. I am also the baby in my family, but I'm a daddys girl instead. I cannot tell you how to feel, but what I can tell you is that the fact they are starting chemo means that there is a chance, which is better that nothing. I also feel like curling up and crying all day long, but what I have found is that my loved ones find strength in my ability to show strength. Please give yourself time to grieve and do not be afraid to show sorrow, but remember, your Grandad will love to see you smile and the sound of your laughter is better than any modern medicine. I am always around to talk to or to scream at. My love and thoughts to you and your family.

Thank you for the information you were able to provide. All these numbers hurt my brain, I hope for nothing but the best for you and yours,and pray that you have the strength to make the stand. Everyone I have in touch with has helped so much.It's nice to know I'm not alone in this

Thank you Don and Barbara for your responses and kind thoughts. My father is considered stage 4. The Dr's say that with all his other problems, he would never survive surgery, chemo, radiation, or new medications. The cancer has spread to both lungs and most likely the brain, not to mention that his other organs are speckled. They have in-home hospice, but the goal now is to make his remaining days are as happy as possible. I will contact Dr.West like you have recommended. Thank you so much. Love to all.

I am so confused. My Father has been diagnosed with NSCLC. The Dr's have only given him 6-12 weeks. He also has major underlying issues, such as emphysema, COPD, and CHF. I live 1200 miles away from him and I am unable to find the answers I seek. Can anyone tell me in laymans terms what CK7, CK20, and TTF+ means? I know that due to my Dad's underlying issues, treatment in not an option, and that death is quickly moving in, but any infomation would be greatly appreciated.