Col did chemo before tarceva, but has been on tarceva and stable for over a year now.
I think the stats are actually for 3 categories, women, non-smoker, and Asians...As in if you any one of thsoe three it will work a little better, but who cares..
It can work for anyone, and if you feel it's an option, argue for it, and make the doctor argue his or her position, they may have a legitimat reason and explanation, or they may just not like you telling them what to try.
2nd opinion is always a good idea.