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Ry

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  1. I am so sorry to read this. I loved her sense of humor and the support she gave in her posts. My sympathy to her family and friends.

  2. I am sorry I am late in welcoming you to the board. I am so glad you are going with your mom to her appointment. As others have said, she is at a stage where she has good odds. Keep us posted on how the appointment goes-- we will all be thinking of you.

  3. I'm sorry it's a hard day for you. The one year mark was hard for me because for some reason that was when it sunk in that things weren't going to change-- he wasn't coming back. I know what you're going through and I hope the melancholy passes soon.

  4. My husband found that using creme rinse helped the scalp area. Maybe you could find a nice moisturizing creme rinse and see if that helps with the scabbing. His rash would come and go so hopefully your husband's will clear up soon.

  5. Marci~

    I am so sorry that on top of grieving for your mother you now have the added stress of all the "other." I am glad you have forgiven your dad- trust me when I tell you that probably wasn't your dad. Watching someone die is enough to push anyone over the edge and I think it takes awhile to get yourself back. I developed some weird phobias and I was more than a little nuts for awhile after losing John. You all need to give yourselves time to heal and hold off on decisions as long as you can to make sure they are the right decisions. Just try to hold yourselves together as a family and honor your mother by healing yourselves.

    I've seen people do some strange things to try not to feel grief. Some people will do anything not to feel and give in to it (like sleeping with someone they don't really care about) but all they do is postpone it-- sooner or later it's going to hit.

    I'm sorry. I know it's hard--

    Rochelle

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