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Janet, you know how jealous I am of your farm! I'm not a cat or dog person but farm animals and animals in nature are a passion. Once in awhile I get to see marsh bunnies or a key deer or more in Big Pine, oh yes, and chickens. I'm in heaven when I see a hen with a brand new brood. Don't have much else in the way of my kind of animals here in KW. Can't wait to see that baby. I will put the pic in the folder with Bruce's baby steer. BTW Lily, I am in touch with Bruce and he is fine. Shows up here once in awhile but not on FB at all.
Janet, I love your life list. I don't think wanting to drive a backhoe is all that strange. One of my proudest moments as a young girl was when the hired man told my Uncle I could handle the Ford tractor pulling the rope attached to the hay forks. The hired man had been teaching me to drive the small tractor on the sly. Pulling the forks sight unseen up and through the opening in the hayloft on the other side of the barn was a tricky business and I did so good. I know you'll be great on that backhoe.
I will write the names of the books down so I don't forget. I can check them out on Amazon to see if they sound like something I would enjoy. No more used book store here anymore.
Judy in KW
P.S. Hey Lily, hi again. We posted at the same time.
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No personal experience with tumors but agree with the others. What they are watching is very small. It is unlikely a biopsy would add anything to the picture at this point in time. I do hope you get an opportunity to talk to the doctor about your concerns. He or she would be in a much better position to set your mind to rest.
Please keep us posted.
Judy in KW
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I'm trying to figure out how to interject some hope into your Mom's future without taking this relief and acceptance away from you.While it breaks my heart to hear about how it feels inside at least I can just accept it and let her do what she needs to without trying too hard or worrying to much.My husband urged me early on to please stop pretending and to tell the doctors how I was really feeling. I took his words to heart and tried to report honestly. But the truth is, I was not pretending. When I was talking with friends, doctors and nurses or just someone I encountered at the store, I automatically went into "I'm o.k." mode. My long distance friends said they always felt better after talking to me on the phone.
You know your Mom better than anyone. My childhood history and personality combine to make that response natural and normal. When I was growing up, you didn't get sick, you didn't go to the doctor--you sucked it up. Fortunately for us kids, it was usually something that would run it's course. I've been dealing with cancer and chemo a long time now. When I didn't care about leaving the house, my husband would gently nudge me into a short outing. If you can't get her to go, that's o.k. but keep offering (not pressuring). Eventually I realized I'm much better off making myself do things--even little things--that get me out and about. Sometimes the fatigue makes it a real effort. Sometimes it makes it out of the question. Sometimes I do it and it's great.
You are a dear daughter and your Mom is so lucky to have you and she knows it. I'm sorry for the lack of family support, however, because that puts the whole burden on you. There is something I would suggest that was the idea of a caretaker sometime ago--she would read uplifting and hopeful posts from here to her mother. When I'm feeling better, I'll try to write one for you lol. Hang in there. You are doing great.
Judy in KW
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Morning All! Am REALLY trying to take it easy today. My cleaning lady is here. After getting a few things ready, I've just been getting some BDay cards in the mail and checking in here.
Lily, sorry I didn't know the problems with the new baby. Sounds like everything is on track now. I'm so glad. My son was allergic to dairy and on soy formula. The only thing I hated was how much it stained his adorable clothes lol.
Janet, my daughter is usually aware of my limitations but I also tend to push the envelope when I'm with her. It was Bed, Bath & Beyond that got me this time. A manager came by while I was sitting on one of the massage chairs. He suggested I try one. I told him I was afraid if I did he might find me still there in the morning. On books, the Postmistress is a good read but for me not compelling so it is taking forever to finish it. If you haven't read it though, get Sarah's Key. OMG I hope I got the title right. I'm going back to Tues Air and see what you recommended. See--I forgot already. Any chance of seeing a pic of that little foal? How exciting is that!
Judy, sounds like a touching moment with R. Glad you've found your way back to the positive side of this. I wouldn't worry too much about the chemo. It sounds like it will probably be limited to the standard 4-6 infusions that typically follow surgery? I hope so for you. These endless maintenance chemos going one into another suck.
Oh Lily, thanks for the TENS info but I don't think Bud is giving up biking or fishing anytime soon. Am I right Bud? Didn't I read your awareness that you were out fishing and getting paid lol????
Have a great day everyone.
Judy in KW
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Bud, the career change sounds great. It will be new fodder to keep your brain young as well as easier on your body. But what is a TENS unit.
Judy, will look forward to hearing what chemo they have planned for you. Hope it's an easy one.
Judy in KW
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TERRIFIC! And thanks for reporting on a drug new to me. I may need it down the line. Unfortunately I can't be tested for the ALK. When I asked the radiologist who removed my fluid last week to be sure to keep enough for the ALK test, he said he understands they need a good chunk of tumor to test for it. Don't have one but am sure my onc would let me try the critoztinib anyway.
Judy in KW
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Morning All! I'm coming in here first or I'm afraid I won't make it again. We arrived home last evening. It feels like we were gone forever. Like Janet said for herself, if I have a big day out, I usually rest the next day. Not so this trip. I think I was out and about every day for 10 days.
I want to rest today but also want to get started on some moderate exercise. I don't know about the total gym. Is it a coincidence that I built up fluid again? Don't know if the last episode started with exercise again or not. I'm going to start with walking, maybe dancing but I'll really miss my gym.
Besides spending time with Wendy and Dominick, we went to Stuart and met up with friends for lunch. They are all from NJ. The one couple has a winter home in Jupiter and the other are good friends we missed passing through KW last week. It happens more than I'd like that we're in Orlando when people are here. So glad we got to connect on the mainland.
O.k., I'm off. Will get back later to read and respond to as many posts as I can. Have a good day all.
Judy in KW
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Morning All! Making this quick. I'm going shopping and don't have much energy to access these days. Stan said save it all for Wendy and my outing. Oh, the turkey dinner was awesome. She was so thrilled when I told her she "nailed it" with my stuffing recipe. And I meant it.
My heart will be with you today Ann.
Judy, I marked a passage from The Postmistress recently: "They strolled and chattered, looking in shop windows, like loose twigs nudging slowly down an easy stream, their voices lighting along the lanes." Just struck me as lovely.
Katie, hope you got that break yesterday if no one was going to show anyway. Kind of like a snow day from school huh lol.
Janet, you made me feel so much better about avoiding mirrors lol. We'll make a great pair at the summit. As far as the energy thing goes, we're pretty much on par there too. Wendy and I made the decision to only do two shops, then lunch and go from there. We may go nowhere from there.
Eric, soooo sorry you had to choose between two social events tonight lol. Have fun. I know you will enjoy whatever you do.
Have a great day everyone.
Judy in KW
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Morning All! I'm going to do a quick opening. I've had to spend way too much time on the computer for other stuff the last couple of days and need to rest for an hour before I have to shower and get on the road again.
Judy, sorry about your nails. I never could do them with fungus such a problem in Key West. I had it in my thumbs and acrylics are the worst if you have fungus. Stan and I were talking about how gracefully I was aging at 64 when cancer struck. Now, staying even remotely pretty is a lost cause. I look like I've aged 10 yrs in less than 5.
Bud, that must be a really troublesome thing to see that documentary and look back on your medical history. Nothing to be done now but what a bummer.
Got to go. Not feeling my best this morning but think I've just had to be too active too soon.
Have a great day everyone.
Judy in KW
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Janet, wish I were home where I could just curl up. The office work went into a real ordeal yesterday because of a printer glitch. Now today, I have to be ready to roll to PSL in about an hour. I was up before 5 am so I am already tired.
Thanks for all the good wishes. I'll be back to normal soon.
Judy in KW
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Thanks guys. Judy, I hope your friend is o.k. but with fluid, it's best to check it out.
Judy in KW
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So the hospital stay not what you wanted but all the rest sounds positive. Thanks for the update. Keep us posted.
Judy in KW
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Nikole, the loved ones you've lost are lucky to have you keeping the fight alive in their honor. And we, the lung cancer survivors, are lucky too and thank you for your efforts.
Judy in KW
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Tom, sorry the change in med didn't solve the cough issue. It can be so troublesome especially when no one seems to give a reason. Here's hoping someone will hit it spot on soon.
Judy in KW
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Eric, again thanks for all you do. You are amazing.
Judy in KW
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Chrissy, I am sorry for your loss. I'm so glad this site was able to offer comfort as your mother fought the good fight. Come back anytime you need a shoulder.
Judy in KW
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Maggie, any surgery is an assault on your body. And the whole lung, must feel like a big part of you missing. Hang in there. Things will get better. The saddness may come and go for awhile but hopefully get smaller and smaller.
Judy in KW
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LOL--a smart blonde.
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Back in for a little. Judy, hope the chemo goes well for you. I am very fortunate and except for some glitches here and there, I tend to handle it well. At least that's what they tell me.
Good to see you Randy. I miss your sweet face when I don't see it for awhile.
Ginny, you must be a die-hard golfer if you plan to play the day you are hosting a dinner party lol. You go girl!
Ann, it's so good of you to do this for your friend. I know you'll do well. I'll be thinking of you.
Laurie, I saw you somewhere say you moved! Too bad, I would have loved to have met again.
Lily, take your time. Ease back into things. I do know what you mean about getting back into the veggie diet. It sometimes tears me up also.
Got to go read.
Have a great day everyone.
Judy in KW
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Morning All! Glad to see the Air open. Haven't had time to read yet. In fact, this is the first time I've opened my computer since I left on Saturday.
You'll see my results in update and all I want to say is thank goodness once again for my angel of mercy Wendy. She had to work in PSL but I was already knocked down and out with the fluid in my belly when I passed thru there on Saturday. She called the hospital here on Sunday but there was nothing to be done unless I was willing to go thru the OR and be admitted. She knows me too well lol. Monday she was on the phone thru the day talking to departments so I got a scanned at 2 instead of 4. That meant time for someone to see me and get me set up for the drain on Tuesday. What a love. I would have never been able to negotiate myself thru that maze without her feeling the way I did.
Missed the BD celebration with Dave's family but next time.
Have a great day everyone.
Judy in KW
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GOOD NEWS ANOTHER STABLE! The not so...I had a few rough days before I got my scan and was scheduled for a Perioenthesis (sp). They drained the equivalent of 5lbs of fluid off my abdomen and that was a great relief. I knew it was happening and was really afraid it constituted a progression but not so. I'm still recovering, discomfort from lots of accumulated gas and bowl system all messed up. It will probably be a couple of days before I feel normal again but am on the mend.
Judy in KW
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I'm taking a pass at least until Wednesday. That looks like the first not stressful or hectic day. Going for scans means stopping at PSL with a quick visit with kids, then to Orlando with 2 hosp apptments, then a birthday visit with the kids up near there. Right now, getting ready to go for my post chemo shot and back home to finish packing to leave in the am--well it all seems too much.
Look forward to checking in with you all next week.
Judy in KW
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Morning All! Working Joes and Janes, you not only hit the end of your work week but are looking to a three-day weekend. It will make traveling difficult for us tomorrow but I'm glad for you.
I'm trying not to stress (where's that Ativan). I got thru chemo day yesterday by 1:30--a record. The chemo nurse was tired because she had to work the weekend. So she decided since she didn't have blood work orders from the doc, she'd skip them. She always goes back in the book for continued orders??? She could have called him???? I told her I thought I was building fluid in my abdomen again so she said they wouldn't give me much fluid today. Consequently, I was done about an 1 1/2 hrs early. She is a piece of work. I was o.k. with it but it means today I have to be in there for my shot early. I have so much to do to get finished packing to go.
I'm going to take an Hall Pass til Wednesday. Don't think I'll have much time between now and then to get online. Will look forward to seeing what's been going on while I'm away.
Have a great day everyone.
Judy in KW
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Good to see you Mike. I love you turning out the light even if it's the next morning lol. Yes, I loved the Monkeys music too and share your saddness as we see our youth checking out.
Judy in KW