I just want to say thank you for responding and all your kind words, As for why she is not getting radiation that is a good question and i will try and find out why, As for what chemo med she is on i will get the names from her later on. I do know that she is taking 2 kinds chemo 1x week for 3 weeks then she gets a break for a week and that they are giving her very high doses because she is on dialantin for epeleptic seizures, The docs said that dialantin eats up the chemo meds. she has 2 tumors on her right lung and in the lymnodes, she had a petscan and everywhere else is clear. I think there goal is to shrink it this way they can operate. I am not crazy about the hospital she is dealing with and would rather her go to sloan kettering. She is not far from it and if i was there i would just get her in my car and take her there. I have already set it up and all she has to do is approve to send her records, she sounds hopeless on the phone and i cant allow that, I wont. I was also looking into the cyberknife treatment since one of her tumors is in a area that they cant get to. Has anyone had this ? Thank you again