Hi everyone. Things pretty much suck for me. Last Friday my Dad was diagnosed, by way of CT scan and bronchoscopy, with sclc. I don't know at this point what stage it is. He had an MRI tonight and is scheduled for a PET scan next Wednesday. He sees his oncologist the following Monday (ten days from now). I hate waiting. I just completed seven months of treatment with my Mom who was diagnosed with stage IV oral cancer last Spring. Now this. At times like this, minutes can feel like days. As if all of this isn't enough, cancer took the life of a very dear family member earlier this week. I'm walking around in disbelief. The one good thing is that my Mom is recovering relatively well. Her CT scans came back today looking good, so I've got that going for me. On the flipside, I've got my Dad's illness seriously messing with my head. He's a 60 year smoker so I am beyond scared. This is such a nightmare. I don't have to tell any of you that though. I just don't know what to expect. My fear is that my Dad may not seek treatment. I think he is waiting to see how extensive it is before he decides what to do. I suggested he see my Mom's doctors, who would have seen him immediately, but he has decided to stay put at the hospital where he was diagnosed and wait it out for his next appointment with the oncologist. My only concern is that this doctor just completed her fellowship. Granted she did so from what I have read is a good institution (Sloan Kettering), but I was hoping he would see the doc my Mom goes to because this guy has been dealing with cancer for quite a number of years. He's kind of stubborn, my Dad. I realize this is hard for him psychologically and physically, but I don't sense urgency in him. I, on the other hand, am giving him names of experts, trying to expedite appointments with doctors, etc -- but he doesn't seem very interested...although he did ask me about some of the various chemo drugs that I became familiar with as a result of my Mom's illness. They appear to be pretty much the same: Carboplatin, Taxol, Iressa. He was curious about the side effects and whether or not he'd be able to drive himself for treatment, etc. He is very independent, and I don't want to step on his feet, but I'd like to do as much as I can to help.
Well, that's my story.