My name is Jan. My husband has small cell lung cancer. We try to work together so far is be ok. But very hard. I hate to see him so tired and sick and he has only had one cemo and about a weeks worth radiation. I am here to learn from others , how best to help and maybe even not help. I want to know what I might be doing wrong. I quitely in my mind think he is pushing me away , but the i say no can't be he is sick. Random thoughts. Married 22 great years, we have had some bad things happen that life has brought but this is by far the biggest blow. Thanks for listening.