Thank you for the kind words and prayers. Ned, I used to feel that aloha spirit when I used to play rugby w/ some guys from Fiji and Tonga. Toughest players I've ever seen. But at the post-match drinkups, you could tell after about 2 seconds of talking w/ them that they were some of the kindest, most generous and laid back people you'd ever want to meet.
Judy in Key West and Ned, I know living near the beach has helped me on a lot of down days. I'll take Murphy, our chocolate lab, for walks at an old Civil War era fort that guards the entrance to New Bedford Harbor, and we'll walk as we watch the fishing boats come in and out, keeping our eyes peeled for the odd seal. In the winter I take him and the kids down to a beach w/ some real nice surf, and no matter how cold, he'll dive in after a tennis ball or whatever stray plastic bottles that have washed up. I love the beach in all seasons. In the winter, the kids will recycle the junk that has washed up on the beach and make sculptures out of it, or just spend hours building w/ the sand. Future architects.
Donna and Kasey thank you for your thoughtful replies. Since Feb '09 my scans have been shown enlargement and spreading of the tumors in the lungs. I used to be in private practice, as a criminal defense attorney, murders, drug traffickers, you name it. Then when I got diagnosed, MGH did a pretty big surgery on my lungs, using talc to try to get the lung to adhere to the chest wall and they cut a window in the membrane around the heart, to allow the fluid that had accumulated there to drain. I couldn't function as a sole practitioner, running my own business, chasing clients, going to Court every day, yelling at cops, Judges. So I joined the "enemy" taking a job at the DA's Office, where I had started as a young lawyer years ago, right out of law school. Full circle as they say. It is a fraction of the money I made, and I miss the action of the courtroom, and people depending on me, but the people I work with are really fantastic: experienced, dedicated, some great lawyers.
Thanks again for reading. I know I enjoy reading the other entries. It really is very helpful for me.
-Brian