Hello everyone. I am new here. My mother, an otherwise perfectly healthy 65 year old, was just diagnosed with Lung Cancer a week and a half ago. This has come as a complete shock to all of us, and I am just devastated. I'm trying to deal with this the best I can and do as much research as possible so that I can help her understand all her treatment options and make the best possible decision.
I've been reading through so many of your posts, and just your storied and information in your signatures has been such an inspiration. I would like my mother to join this group as I can tell that you all offer each other incredible support and advice and it seems invaluable. All of your stories, good and bad, have brought me to tears and I wish the best to everyone of you.
Since we're so new to the process, and didn't even know all of the questions to ask, I'm still a bit uncertain of all of the details. My mother has a large tumor in her right lung, near the esophagus, and a small lesion in the left. She had a biopsy of the small one yesterday and will have one done of the large in the next week or so. At this point, they are giving her the benefit of the doubt and assuming, based on appearance, that they both primaries, which would put her at a stage IIIa. We have been told that the course of action will be radiation 5x/week for a total of 31-33 treatments and chemo 1x/week for 6 weeks and that surgery is not an option. I'm not entirely clear why it's not an option. One doctor said something about the mediastinum being invaded thus ruling out the surgery and the other said surgery would require removal of the whole lung, so it's not an option. But, I see in some of your posts that lung removal can be effective, so I'm wondering if we should be pushing for this. Also, how many treatments of radiation will eliminate surgery as an option down the road? Someone here mentioned that they had 3 opinions saying non-surgical and then finally a 4th opinion at NIH agreed to the surgery. I did not know that patients can see doctors at NIH. Can anyone recommend a doctor? We are in NJ, but of course, we're willing to travel. Sorry for so many questions, but I'm feeling a bit desperate for info right now. Thanks in advance for any help you can offer.