Joanie,
My mom is going through a very similar situation..My mom and dad were friends with these people for over 60 years, they are my godparents as well..It was about 3 months after dad passed, they were playing cards, someone didnt like what someone else did(yadda yadda) and they havent spoken since (crazy huh)..
My mom has a condo in fla. and so do these people..They see her everyday and still have not said a word..I have a hard time understanding how people can be so cruel to a grieving widow(best friends through the years)..
I only hope when I go down there next week to visit I can tell them how I feel..Shame on them and all the other so called friends that have done this to all of you..Especially to you and your husband Joanie..