Tony & Sue,
The fact that you found us means you are out there looking. Get all the information you can and remember you have choices and can say "No". A second opinion is always helpful.
Diagnosed 3B a year ago. Upper left lung - inoperable. Treatment: Chemo - Cisplatin & Etopiside. Took scheduled etopiside but declined 3rd dose of cisplatin as the kidney function numbers were too risky as far as I was concerned. Also got radiation - 36 zaps. Result after 2 months following treatment - tumor shrunk to 1/2 it's original size. Two months later it had grown back to it's original size and continued to grow. As of 3/9/11 it was 7.9 cm x 6 cm. The good news was that it was not detected in any other place. Due to that situation, I began the second Chemo treatment - Carboplatin, Paclitaxel & Avastin.
My spirits are good and, other than those rough days during treatment, have been good. Take your time and walk through this. It takes awhile to digest everything and "learn the language" This situation can be an amazing opportunity to receive gifts you never new existed.
Love & prayers, Jerry