Hello Sue.
I don't come here often, just check in occasionally, and identified with your post here.
It has been 15 months for me now. Sometimes I go along so well, and then there are times like last night when I remember he's not here and is not coming back. My tears flow, but it isn't as often as at first. I purchased a book titled " Grief's Courageous Journey" which has helped me along the way.
I'm to the point of wanting to move on, opening new doors for myself, without forgetting my past. I am thankful he chose me for his wife and that we were able to have our years together.
Coming to this site and other sites like widownet.com helps me realize that I am not alone. For some reason that is important to me.
My best to you - you are not alone.
Cyndy