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Sandra, I am angry with you. That is gross negligence, somewhere. Yes, you do have to be your own best advocate. Many times, my mom will say " no news is good news, I've always thought".. well, unfortunately "no news" may be that no one has bothered to follow up or get the news .. which has been the case on all too many occasions where my family has been concerned. I can't tell you how many times Mike or my mom would arrive at the doctor for scan results and find out the doctor didn't have them yet. Wouldn't it be wonderful if the doctors actually made a note to check on the results themselves? This is something that all cancer patients need to know.. you can't assume anything and you have to look out for yourself. Sandra, I'm just so very sorry for all you have been through. Know that my thoughts and prayers are with you . Hope you get answers and hopefully solutions to all your problems soon. Hugs, Sue

(((Teardrop))), I am so very sorry your sister is going through so much right now. My heart goes out to you and your family. Wish I could answer questions, but I don't have answers. Just know that my thoughts and prayers are with your sister, you and your family. Hugs, Sue

Listening to Jayla brings back memories of when my kids were that age. It put a smile on my face. Thanks for sharing , Denise. Sue

Jeannie, I am so very sorry for your loss. My prayers go out to you and your family . Know that we will be here for you , if you need us. God Bless, Sue

Wow... (((Janette)))

(((Jude))), Wish I had answers, but I don't. I do have big hugs for you and I do understand. It has been nearly 3 years since I lost the love of my life and I am still grieving. I have my ups and downs. I do believe that it is important to allow yourself to grieve. Sometimes just letting myself give in and really cry is the most therapeutic thing I can do for myself. Hang in there and know that there are many of us here who understand and care. Hugs, Sue

Oh Muriel, I'm so sorry they scared you like that, but thank god everything is ok. I hope that celebration is still going on cause I love to celebrate good news. Hugs, Sue

Congratulations on these milestones and wishes for many many more to come. Hugs, Sue

Ned, When Mike was on Alimta he never needed any neulasta shots . Like Patti, he suffered from fatigue and SOB.. his SOB was extreme an actually went into pneumonitis. Increased shortness of breath is something you want to have checked out and be mindful of before it gets to that point. Hopefully, it won't be a problem for you . As for the WBC , Mike had no problems on Alimta. Lots of luck to you. Many have had good results with Alimta. Hugs, Sue

(((Tina))), Prayers are going up for your Mom and your family. I'm so sorry she is not doing well. God Bless, Sue

Heidi, It's so good to hear from you . Your updates are so positive. As for you, I really wish you the best of luck with your weight loss.. sounds like you have a lot to be proud of already... You go girl. My prayers to you, your mom and your family. Keep in touch. Hugs, Sue

Denise, It's good that you can look on the bright side of the situation , as well. We will be happy to celebrate Tom's milestone tomorrow. Take care. Hugs, Sue

(((Denise))), I'm so very sorry. It's just not fair. My heart goes out to you. I can relate in many ways. Hugs, Sue

(((Tammy))), I am so very sorry. My heartfelt condolences go out to you and your family. Know that we will be here for in the difficult days ahead. Hugs, Sue

(((Chris))), Words? What words can I say to let you know that I totally understand. May tomorrow be a better day. Know that you can email me or pm me anytime, I care. Hugs, Sue

Jude, What a beautiful Christmas memory you have shared with us. You are so right about telling people to savor the time they have with their loved ones. I think that is true whether they are cancer patients or not. None of us can take tomorrow for granted. I'm so glad you have beautiful memories that you can hang on to, it helps so much. How touching to think that you shared posts from members of this forum at Don's service. He was a family member to us. We are a family here. I have to tell you that Don's death leaves a big hole here. We cry and we grieve when we lose our members and Don was no exception. As caregivers and family members we oftentimes have a lot to share with others , sometimes just reading what they have to say and being able to relate is enough. Cyber hugs go far here. Thank you for being a part of us. Big hugs to you and your family, Sue

Tammy, My heart really goes out to you as you go through this with Greg. I know how draining this can be. I just want you to know that I will keep you, Greg and your family in my prayers. Hope things begin to improve and he will be going home soon. Hugs, Sue

(((Randy))), Three years sounds like such a long time, but it's not nearly long enough to finish grieving. The love you and Deb shared was so special. I hope there will be some comforting memories in your thoughts today. Lots of tissues and fluffy blankets coming your way. I understand. Hugs, Sue

Congratulations Gina and Joe!!! This is just awesome news. Sue

Happy Birthday Geri!!! Hugs, Sue

(((Jackie))), My heart goes out to you and your mom. I hope that you will receive news of treatment options soon. Hang in there and take it one day at a time. Remember to take care of you too, that new baby is depending on you. Do post pics in the pics section, for all of us to see your new bundle of joy. In the meantime, I wish I had some information to help you, but I am not familiar with your situation. Know that you and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers. Sue

Happy Birthday Barb!!! Hugs, Sue

(((Tracy))), Thank you for posting and know that we will be here for you and your family. Don was amazing. I only hope he knew how much he was loved and appreciated by so many here. I know he loved his grandchildren and his family. My thoughts and prayers go out to all of you as you go through these very difficult days. We appreciate all of you sharing your memories and thoughts of Don with all of us. May God be with you and yours. Sue

"1. I spend too much time there. 2. I spend too much time there. 3. I spend too much time there. " Thanks , Ann!!! Sue

Jude, Thank you so very much for sharing this wonderful tribute to a man we all knew was very special and now we have even more reasons to confirm what we already knew. Again, I want you to know that my heartfelt condolences go out to you and your family. God Bless, Sue