Debaroo Posted June 26, 2003 Share Posted June 26, 2003 Well, the onc. called me today...Dad has mets to the liver, but the worst part is that his left lung is almost completly collapsed, and they don't know if it is just fluid causing it, or a tumor. He will go to a pulm. and they will try to use a needle to relieve some of the fluid, but if it isn't fluid than I don't know what will happen. I'm scared, and numb at the same time. I'm sad, and numb at the same time. I don't know what to do...I asked about RFA for the liver mets and the onc. said to check it out, that it just might work..but first we have to deal with the collapsed lung, since he can't undergo chemo until that is handled, he is much tooo weak. Just, please pray you guys...I know I don't even have to ask, but I feel so powerless right now...and so dumb. Thank God the board is online today, I think I'd go crazy if it weren't, as I have been for the past two days of it being offline and not being able to check in on and with all of you...I felt lost, just so lost. Thank you all for being here. Take care, Deb Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gail Posted June 26, 2003 Share Posted June 26, 2003 Deb, Sorry the news wasn't good, but try to take a deep breath and let it out s-l-o-w-l-y. One foot in front of the other, only do what's next to be done. Sending prayers your way . . . gail Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Andrea B. Posted June 26, 2003 Share Posted June 26, 2003 Deb, I am so very sorry to hear about your dad. I will be praying for him, you and your family. You all seem to have an amazing strength and attitude. I am sorry you have to go through all this. I wish there was something more I could say to make you feel better. Please lean on everyone here when needed. I will be thinking of you. Take care of yourself. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tiny Posted June 26, 2003 Share Posted June 26, 2003 Deb, So sorry to hear your discouraging news and to feel your helplessness in the face of this ugly beast. I'll be saying prayers for dad and your family. All you can do right now is pray, hang in there, and count on us to support you as much as we can. Bunches of tender hugs. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LindaMRG Posted June 26, 2003 Share Posted June 26, 2003 Needless to say youve got those prayers and a big hug for you. ((((((((BIG HUG))))))))))))) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ginnyd Posted June 26, 2003 Share Posted June 26, 2003 Deb, I am so sorry about the news for your Dad. Try to stay positive especially with him, the game is not over until the fat lady sings and I have never heard anyone sing here. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Carol Lee S Posted June 26, 2003 Share Posted June 26, 2003 Deb, Stay positive, Gene had plueral effusion and a collapsed lung and did fine with antibodics. RFA maybe a good choice I have heard so many good things about this procedure, finally Gene's onc. agreed it may be an option for Gene. Unfortunately we took him to the cardiologist yesterday and he heard something he didn't like and Gene is in the hospital awaiting another caterization (#4) this may be the reason he is so out of breath. I am praying for a small blockage or a simple restenosis. I saw the Xrays last night while he was in the ER and the both lungs look like white clouds. Second week of Gemzar is now on hold. Need some extra prayers for his procedure today. Thank heavens this board is back on line, I was in a state of panic after the Doc visit. Praying for us all. Carol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shelliemacs Posted June 26, 2003 Share Posted June 26, 2003 God, Please, we are all in need of your help right now. There are too many of us right now with fear and we need your help desperately to see us through these times. God please hear us and help us. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Candy Posted June 26, 2003 Share Posted June 26, 2003 Sending extra prayers for you guys - for all of us. Its been a bad week. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Terrie Posted June 26, 2003 Share Posted June 26, 2003 Deb- I am sending up prayers right now for your dad - I'm so glad the boards are back on so we can all keep in touch! Hang tough and take it one day at a time - as my hubby told me - and if that's too much you take it one hour at a time, one minute at a time. You can do this. We're right there behind you. Gods blessings-- Terrie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gail p-m Posted June 26, 2003 Share Posted June 26, 2003 Deb So sorry to hear about your Dad. This is sure one rough road. Will be thinking about you and your Dad who will be in my thoughts and prayers. Hopefully, better news coming soon. Remember there are many of us here for you. Gail P-M Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Don Wood Posted June 26, 2003 Share Posted June 26, 2003 Deb, my prayers are with you and your dad and family. Don Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
natalie Posted June 26, 2003 Share Posted June 26, 2003 Deb- I will place you and your dad in my prayers. Keep positive and hang in there. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fresca Posted June 26, 2003 Share Posted June 26, 2003 I am praying too. Positive vibes sent your way! Rana Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
norme Posted June 26, 2003 Share Posted June 26, 2003 Deb & Carol, Have just sent a message UP ABOVE for both your loved ones. God Bless. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted June 26, 2003 Share Posted June 26, 2003 Debaroo Hang in there girl!!! Sometimes things seem to be worse before they get better!! Lets hope & prayer it is that way this time!!! Keep us posted!!! ((((((Hugs)))))) Estelle Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SandyS Posted June 27, 2003 Share Posted June 27, 2003 Deb - So sorry it wasn't better news for your dad. Keep some positive thoughts flowing and just be there for him..........you've been doing a great job - don't change a thing. Hugs and prayers, SandyS Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted June 27, 2003 Share Posted June 27, 2003 Deb..praying hard for you and your Dad. You are so strong. Your Dad will draw from your strength. Take care. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rosanne Posted June 27, 2003 Share Posted June 27, 2003 Deb, Sorry to hear the bad news about your father. Hang in there. And as always, I'll say an extra prayer. Rosanne Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Karma1976 Posted June 27, 2003 Share Posted June 27, 2003 Deb keep us posted and sending good vibes and prayers your way!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Debaroo Posted June 27, 2003 Author Share Posted June 27, 2003 Thank you so much for all of your support, guys...And Estelle, I hope you're right, I keep telling myself that too. That sometimes things take such a downslide, and then, after some work, it is resolved and things will start to maintain again...I hope. Carol, I private messaged you. I hope Gene is doing alright. It really has been a HUGE help knowing that all of you are here, and that I have a place to go whenever I need to. Dad goes to the pulmanologist today (friday) at 12:30, and I am hoping and praying that his lung can be drained and they can get it working again. I will, of course, keep you all posted. My dear friends, we've never met and yet when I need to confide in someone how things are going, you are the first people I want to go to...you understand, and I can't express how grateful I am to each and every one of the 400+ members here. Everyone dosn't have to answer, I know there are posts I read and don't respond to, but I STILL say a prayer and think of them. Take care, guys Deb Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mary Posted June 27, 2003 Share Posted June 27, 2003 Deb, I truely believe that you have been a great advocate for your father. Continue pushing for the best medicine can offer like the RFA. I researched it for my sister and it is becoming more and more common. Praying for good news soon, Mary Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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