kimblanchard Posted July 11, 2003 Posted July 11, 2003 Tomorrow would have been my husband's 53 birthday. I hope they have strawberry shortcake in heaven because he will be asking for it. I miss him everyday. Happy Birthday Sweetheart up there!, I love you very much!. Will the pain of this loss ever end? Ever? Quote
Rick Posted July 12, 2003 Posted July 12, 2003 I bet he will enjoy that strawberry shortcake and will one day enjoy it with you again. I am sorry for your pain.... Quote
Don Wood Posted July 12, 2003 Posted July 12, 2003 Special days will be very painful for a while. It is part of remembering and going through the grief process. My prayers are with you. Don Quote
Carolsdaughter Posted July 12, 2003 Posted July 12, 2003 Kim, I would like to think that there is plenty of Strawberry Shortcake in heaven. I also believe that we are at our perfect best, we have Birthdays but we don't age. I have been told that grieving comes in "waves", so that we might better tolerate in the pain involved. "Happy Birthday" Kim's beloved husband. Hugs, Shelly Quote
Guest Posted July 29, 2003 Posted July 29, 2003 I haven't checked this message since I sent it, thank you everyone for your super kind words and for listening to me. Up days and bad days. I went and bought my first car all by myself, it was a weird thing but I heard my hubbie telling me all the questions I had to ask...every day is different isn't it? I pray for all of you going through difficult times right now, my thoughts are with all of you and your families. ((hugs)) Kim. Quote
norme Posted July 29, 2003 Posted July 29, 2003 Kim, I can't imagine heaven without stawberry shortcake. Life does go on and we must go with it. I bought our last two cars. Before that, my husband always did the buying with me there. The car we bought before this one being my first, we arrived at the dealer around 6:30 pm and was still there at 10pm and i was still trying not to pay an extra $30 for waterproofing the seats. Finally, my husband said, Norme, pay the man and lets go......who knows, i might still be there. We survivors can do many things when we put our minds to it..... hope your days are getting happier..... Quote
Karma1976 Posted July 30, 2003 Posted July 30, 2003 I can NOT believe i have ot seen this till now!! Happy Belated B-day to your hubby!!!! My dad's b-day was the 8th so hopefully they both had some strawberry shortcake together. my dad fav cake is rum cake. so i hope he got that!!! Quote
kimblanchard Posted August 6, 2003 Author Posted August 6, 2003 Thanks guys for all your kind words, I am finding that some of my sense of humor is coming back and all I could think of Karma is that if they are sharing strawberry shortcake, my husband would be grabbing the biggest piece and be first in line..he could never turn down a great buffet, I am sure there was a fight for the rum cake as well...Love to all of you, Hope things in all your lives are easing little by little! Quote
Ann Posted August 7, 2003 Posted August 7, 2003 Kim, I know how you are feeling. My Dennis would have been 51 on June 10th. He, too, loved strawberry shortcake! Maybe they enjoyed cake together! One can only have faith and believe that heaven is all about all the things that make us the happiest.....and my honey sure could eat a lot of shortcake. Way to go on buying the car! Isn't it funny how we still get all those little messages from our guys? Dennis seems to help me out all the time when things go wrong here at the house. It's amazing! I lost Dennis December 15th, 2002, so I know just where you're coming from. I only hope that someday only good memories remain and that all the painful memories associated with this damned cancer go away! Quote
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