stand4hope Posted August 12, 2005 Share Posted August 12, 2005 Hi everybody, I just wanted to drop in and let you all know that I am doing ok. The service for Don was beautiful. Three of his co-workers spoke about him, and there were more than 200 people that called and attended the funeral. It was awesome. I wrote a special tribute to Don, and at the end I had them play "I Got You Babe", a song by Sonny & Cher from the 70s. We used to point our fingers at each other and say "I GOT YOU BABE!" I swear, there wasn't a dry eye in the house. I got through it ok, a lot better than I thought I would. Now, I'm up to my ears in paperwork, so keeping quite busy. I have read the posts and see that so many are having a hard time right now, and even that Jana and Karen lost their Mum. I am so sad - just sad about it all. I also will never be able to express to all of you how touched I was by your responses to me. I am truly overwhelmed. I can't begin to answer all the PMs right now, but like I said before, as soon as I have the time and strength to talk about it, I will be back. It may take me a while, so don't worry - I will be back. I know that I truly am still in shock and the reality of this hasn't sunk in. I just kept saying at the casket - "I can't believe this is real. I just can't believe this is real." I know the reality is going to hit my heart and mind and come down on me like a ton of steel. I'm ready for it, and have countless family, friends and pastors ready to help me through everything and do everything that needs to be done. Mike is doing really well. Also, a lot better than I thought he would. He's getting some nice things from his dad, so that has helped to cusion the blow. However, as we all know, that joy with "things" will not last. Time will tell for both of us. Much love to all, and I WILL BE BACK! Love, Peggy P.S. Many, many thanks for the beautiful, loving cards. I will cherish each and every one of them forever. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nushka Posted August 12, 2005 Share Posted August 12, 2005 Peggy, I sure was thoughtfull of you to let us know that you are ok at this point. I keep you in my prayers. There will be some really rough roads ahead but know that we are here for you when and if you need us. Nina Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Don Wood Posted August 12, 2005 Share Posted August 12, 2005 Thanks for posting, Peggy, and letting us know how you two are doing. Glad to hear you will be back with us. Blessings. Don Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kaffie Posted August 12, 2005 Share Posted August 12, 2005 Peggy, You need to take it easy and take care of yourself now. Was nice of you to post and give us an update on how you are feeling. Sounds like the funeral was beautiful. Kathy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Treebywater Posted August 12, 2005 Share Posted August 12, 2005 I'm so glad to hear from you. You've been near in my thoughts. I know very well what you mean about it not feeling real. Mom's death is JUST starting to sink in for me. You're an amazing, amazing lady, Peggy and I'm so glad to know you. I'm hurting with you and praying for you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maryanne Posted August 12, 2005 Share Posted August 12, 2005 Thank you so much for taking the time to stop by and let us know about that enlightening service for Don and how you are doing. I am just so overwhelmed by everything you have gone through so far and how well you are holding up. I thank G-d you have so many family and friends ready to help you. You are blessed there. I know Don's presence was felt at his funeral and he was so proud of you and Mike. I am sure he smiled down at you with all the love he has when they played your special song. That was Priceless. Please take care and come back when you can. We miss you and I am so glad that you will continue to stay with us. Prayers sent to you Peggy, for continued strength to carry on. Maryanne Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cindy RN Posted August 12, 2005 Share Posted August 12, 2005 Peggy-I am glad you posted. I am so thankful you have the support you need. Stop back by when you can. Love and Prayers, Cindy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fall54 Posted August 12, 2005 Share Posted August 12, 2005 Dearest Peggy, I have been checking the board all the time to see if there has been anything from you, thankfully tonight there has. The funeral sounded beautiful and very fitting with you and Don's song being played. You still DO have him Babe, he is just locked in a very special part of you're heart now. Yes, I am sure you are still in shock and I have been there when I lost my 1 st husband so suddenly, I do know the shock wears off as do you and the reality is hard so I am glad you have so many fine friends and family to help you through it. I am also glad to hear Mike is doing well but time will tell as you said for him too. I love you GF and You and Mike are in my prayers always. God Bless you, Jane Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shineladysue Posted August 12, 2005 Share Posted August 12, 2005 Peggy, It's good to hear from you. You take the time you need. I'm so glad that Don had a beautiful service and that you aren't alone. Don is at peace now and you need to take care of yourself. Can't even imagine how you must be feeling. I don't want to know how it feels. Just know that we love you and will be here for you. God Bless you. Love and Prayers, Sue Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cindi o'h Posted August 12, 2005 Share Posted August 12, 2005 Dear Peggy. Thanks for checking in. Wish I could have been at Don's funeral. It sounds like a lovely service. So glad that support is there for you. Been thinking of you several times a day...wondering how is Peggy? All love coming your way. Cindi o'h Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Patkid Posted August 12, 2005 Share Posted August 12, 2005 Love you, Peggy. P Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kimmek Posted August 12, 2005 Share Posted August 12, 2005 Peggy, Thank you letting us know you are doing ok. I think I can speak for everyone in saying we have been thinking of you daily. You are a remarkable lady, and even during this trying time you are still thinking of others. You have more than earned a break and rest, its time for peggy to be "cared for", so take whatever time yoou need, post when you can and know you are cared for by many. God Bless you Kim Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gail p-m Posted August 12, 2005 Share Posted August 12, 2005 Peggy, That was very thoughtful of you to post to let us know how you're doing. I've been thinking lots about you and Mike. I'm so glad, but not surprised, that you have a great ciircle of friends, family and pastors to help you at this most difficult time. You have to take time for yourself and your son right now and don't worry about "visiting" us until you are ready You and Mike continue in my thoughts and prayers. Gail p-m Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lisa O Posted August 12, 2005 Share Posted August 12, 2005 Dearest Peggy, Whether you post or not, you are in my thoughts and prayers. I wish you peace and comfort in these difficult days. Lisa Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ann Posted August 12, 2005 Share Posted August 12, 2005 Peggy....I know just where you are right now and would love to be there to give you a hug and let you know that everything will be alright! My heart and thoughts have been with you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ry Posted August 12, 2005 Share Posted August 12, 2005 I am glad you checked in, I have been wondering how you are. You and Mike take care of each other and pop in when you can. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lindseysmom Posted August 12, 2005 Share Posted August 12, 2005 Peggy, My thoughts and prayers are with you. Best Wishes, Dee Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lindseysmom Posted August 12, 2005 Share Posted August 12, 2005 Peggy, My thoughts and prayers are with you. Best Wishes, Dee Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Addie Posted August 12, 2005 Share Posted August 12, 2005 Peggy... My thoughts are with you, dear one. Wishing you strength and all the comforts that may exist during such a terrible time. I hope it helps to know how much you are loved and valued right here. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bunny Posted August 12, 2005 Share Posted August 12, 2005 I'm so glad to hear from you, Peggy. you are such an example to me of walking through ANYTHING with grace, love and truth. we're here, don't worry about coming and going as you need to. prayers and love to you, xoxo amie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ellakc2 Posted August 12, 2005 Share Posted August 12, 2005 Glad to see your post. You have been on my mind. Will pray for you and your son to have strength. Take care of yourself and try to sleep, it helps. Love, Mare Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sharyn Posted August 12, 2005 Share Posted August 12, 2005 Peggy, So glad to read your post. I am sure Don's service was just beautiful and he was smiling down on you all. I think of you often and pray for you even more than that.... Love, Sharon Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
annjael Posted August 13, 2005 Share Posted August 13, 2005 Peggy,,,so glad to hear from you. I understand where you are, and it is overwhelming. You will learn to cope, but it takes time. I am glad you have your son with you. Prayers and hugs to you and Mike. Peace, Annjael Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LynneH Posted August 13, 2005 Share Posted August 13, 2005 Peggy, so glad to read your post. I don't know what you are feeling because we are all different. But I do know that I am here if you just want to chat with someone else that has lost their best buddy and love of their life. I do remember that the paperwork put me in auto-mode for a while which I think the body goes into to protect itself from being absolutely overwhelmed. I'm certainly no expert. Post when you can. I eagerly check to see if you are okay (and "okay" is a very relative term). Lynne Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gerbil runner Posted August 13, 2005 Share Posted August 13, 2005 You and Mike remain in my prayers. Hope the next days and weeks have some peace for you both. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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