Fay A. Posted October 28, 2005 Share Posted October 28, 2005 Well, Folks, it has been brought to my attention that others feel I make light of having Lung Cancer, and that I make it sound as if the various treatments for Lung Cancer-Surgery, Chemo, Radiation-are simple or easy and without risk. You have GOT to be kidding me. I never said any of this was easy. And I never claimed that any cancer treatment, or treatment for problems that result from having Lung Cancer, Lung Cancer Mets, or their treatments is simple or easy or without risk. What I have said is that it is doable (which it is) and these are risks I am willing to take (which I have). Hope that clears things up. Just read below signature line. I actually do "...have a clue...". Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cindy RN Posted October 28, 2005 Share Posted October 28, 2005 Fay-I NEVER thought you made light of having cancer. I have always felt you handled it with grace and as part of life now. Those who have it know you either go on and deal with it or let it take over. I prefer to live and deal with what comes. Not worry over what might happen. Whoever told you that has no clue! Keep up keepin on, I for one admire the way you have dealt with what can be totally life altering. Cindy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Don Wood Posted October 28, 2005 Share Posted October 28, 2005 Fay, so sorry someone has taken you to task for something I know is not true of you. If anyone on this board is serious about lung cancer, it is you. You know you have much support here. Don Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jyoung20 Posted October 28, 2005 Share Posted October 28, 2005 Fay, I'm truly sorry that someone has made you feel that way. It is obvious you have been through so much. GOD BLESS!! Jamie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kasey Posted October 28, 2005 Share Posted October 28, 2005 Fay, You are one who truly DOES get it and know what this disease is all about. You have been supportive and compassionate to everyone, as I see it. Please keep doing what you have been doing. We need your expertise much. Love, Kasey Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Treebywater Posted October 28, 2005 Share Posted October 28, 2005 Fay, When you take the time to share from your experience, or relate to others' experience (which you do graciously, very often), you are one that I ist up and PAY ATTENTION to. You do a good job of reminding us to feel the feelings, but not get stuck in them. You are admirable, real, and challenging. And those are only some of the things that I have come to truly appreciate about your input to us all here, and especially to those things you have spoken to in my life. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shineladysue Posted October 28, 2005 Share Posted October 28, 2005 Fay, Whoever would say such a thing to you hasn't taken the time to get to know you. Just reading your profile is enough to tell anyone that you are no stranger to the rough roads one may have to travel in fighting this disease . Anyone that has the nerve to make such a statement needs to look up every one of your posts and read some of the most inspirational words ever written here. Sorry someone would say that to you. Please don't let it affect you in any way. You are loved, appreciated, taken seriously and admired.. those are words you can take to the bank. Prayers are with you Fay. Love, Sue Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Connie B Posted October 28, 2005 Share Posted October 28, 2005 You have GOT TO BE KIDDING ME??? Someone really said that about YOU ????????? The word MOST used by us Cancer Patients is: DOABLE! That's not the same as easy, or a cake walk, or fun or making light of our treatments or what ever. It's what it is DOABLE!! Some of us have problems with our treatments and some of us don't. Obviously someone has to much time on there hands to be saying silly things like that! My Goodness! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fall54 Posted October 28, 2005 Share Posted October 28, 2005 Dear Fay, You have always been someone I admire for you're courage, knowledge, compassion and love. Dont let one bean spoil the pot!! God Bless You Always, Jane Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SDianneB Posted October 28, 2005 Share Posted October 28, 2005 Oh, good grief! You, of all people! It's comical. Really. Here's a giant raz to the person who thinks that -- tthhhppppppttttt. Pass it along! Di Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ann Posted October 28, 2005 Share Posted October 28, 2005 Oh Fay...What a Hoot! Hope you treat this with a grain of salt! You are one of the most well informed members of this MB. You always seem to handle any situation with grace and style. Please...whoever misunderstood our Fay..reread her posts and her profile! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Debi Posted October 28, 2005 Share Posted October 28, 2005 Oh for crying out loud Fay, I thought everyone KNEW you were the Warrior Princess here... It seems that if there is something to go through, you have gone through it. Apparently, instead of applauding your strength, wisdom, dignity AND lack of self-pity, someone just isn't "getting" you. Their loss. All that said, Halloween is Monday. Are you going to put up the avitar of the Poultrygeist anytime soon? Don't make me beg over here... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cathy Posted October 28, 2005 Share Posted October 28, 2005 Fay, Just want to throw in a word of support..You are and have always been an inspiration to this board..I dont know why someone would say something like that, especially to you.. You have been through so much and continue everyday to fight this beast..I really wish people would think before they talk, don't they realize how hurtful their words can be? You dont need to worry about this you have enough on your plate..Please dont give it anymore of your precious energy... XO Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Calintay Posted October 28, 2005 Share Posted October 28, 2005 Fay - What a joke! Everyone here knows it is not easy or a cake walk but it is just as everything in life is Doable! Laugh at the one who said that to you and remember your such a strong inspiration to so many of us. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dazy Posted October 28, 2005 Share Posted October 28, 2005 All I can do is echo all of the sentiments posted so far...I've always found your courage inspiring, your knowledge impressive, and your posts encouraging. Battle on, brave Warrior-ess!! Some people...sheeesh!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ma's kid Posted October 28, 2005 Share Posted October 28, 2005 ((((Fay)))) Well, all I can say is that *this* is the biggest bunch of bologna I've ever heard. As a relative *newby*, I find your posts, loving, helpful and inspiring.. Hugs, Fay Libby Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MilliBr1 Posted October 28, 2005 Share Posted October 28, 2005 Since the time I've been here you have struck me as someone who has faced this disease armed with knowledge and is a real fighter who does not give up. I always look forward to your posts. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cindi o'h Posted October 28, 2005 Share Posted October 28, 2005 Miss Fay.. I would say that it would be folks who don't have enough time on their hands. They have jumped to some conclusions. You are one person who I know who has researched every aspect of lc treatments. I think you know more than many docs. These folks would know that if they took the time to read your posts. I am sorry if these people have hurt your feelings. Please let it go. It doesn't apply. Cindi o'h Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
annjael Posted October 28, 2005 Share Posted October 28, 2005 I yi yi yi yi yi yi yi yi!!!!!! Doable to me, means that you are saying,,,,okay this isnt great,,,,,,but it is do a ble. I can cope, I can get through this,,,,,,I am ready to take this on. Whatever, it takes, I am in. No easy road, no, this is a cinch,,,,, Fay, you are truly an amazing woman, I think you try to see as much doable as possible from a very serious situation, and that is why you are such an inspiration here on this board...........you give hope!!!! Peace, Annjael Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
J.C. Posted October 28, 2005 Share Posted October 28, 2005 Fay, I ever I need an answer to a medical question be sure I'll call on you. Your knowledge is there but you worked to get it. Take care of you and forget or forgive nasty people. Love J.C. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Geri Posted October 28, 2005 Share Posted October 28, 2005 Fay, I have never had the impression that you thought this was an easy road to travel. What I heard was that we've got it and now we must do our best to get rid of it. No hand wringing, no wailing, just a good common sense approach to something that terrifies us all. Thanks for all your imput, it's been very helpful. Geri Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fay A. Posted October 28, 2005 Author Share Posted October 28, 2005 I received an email from someone and I am embarrassed that I responded at all to it. (That will teach me to post my email address). Normally I wouldn't have given this any thought, but last night was a night with no sleep, I'm dealing with the horrible night sweats/chills thing again (I do my own sheet changes folks), waiting for the Scan News, I have a Kitchen remodel that was supposed to be complete 30 days ago and isn't, a Contractor that is doing a disappearing act on me, a house full of dust, no real cooking facilities or sink or dishwasher ( an issue if you have only 2/3 of one lung and are on immune suppressants and will be starting chemo again within two weeks.). So please forgive me for having a melt down. I really am embarrassed. I over reacted, and I hate it when that happens... I'll try harder to be a grownup...sort of. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Calintay Posted October 28, 2005 Share Posted October 28, 2005 Whether it is overreacting or not, anyone traveling this road be it a patient or a careegiver knows it is not easy. You can "overreact" anytime you want Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hebbie Posted October 28, 2005 Share Posted October 28, 2005 No need for apologizing -- we all have our "meltdown days". With that said -- I want you to remember that I consider you a CANCER WARRIER (I believe I equated you to the Christina Agulera "Fighter" song before ) You have been through it all....and each time you get knocked down you make the choice to get up and get back into the ring.... Simply put: You Rock! -- And don't let anyone ever make you feel otherwise!! Heather Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ry Posted October 28, 2005 Share Posted October 28, 2005 Hang in there Sheena. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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