nancyf267 Posted November 19, 2005 Author Share Posted November 19, 2005 Thanks for celebrating with me! Although, reality is back today ~ this cancer stuff stinks! My dad came by and took me shopping for cute hats ~ which my husband was very happy about because he actually got a break from me calling him at work and crying! Boy were you guys right about the highs and lows. Heck, I have a week and 1/2 before I even start chemo and I'm a basket case. I'm so glad I found you guys, what a HUGE difference it makes talking with you! My prayers to all, Nancy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Patkid Posted November 19, 2005 Share Posted November 19, 2005 At least it is winter. Brian was wearing warm type hats in spring and into summer. He was so cold. Now he fits right in. P Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OhioKat Posted November 19, 2005 Share Posted November 19, 2005 Welcome Nancy, sorry to had to find us. ((hugs)) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ry Posted November 19, 2005 Share Posted November 19, 2005 Welcome to the site. I hope your treatment goes well. We all love party. Rochelle Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jorja Posted November 20, 2005 Share Posted November 20, 2005 That is wonderful news!!! My dad is a 15 month survivor of limited SCLC!! Glad you found us! love, jorja Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nancyf267 Posted November 20, 2005 Author Share Posted November 20, 2005 Thanks everybody for the posts! I love all the positive energy and the survival stories...at least now I know it's possible to fight and actually win against this stuff! Thanks again! You all are in my prayers Nancy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Connie B Posted November 20, 2005 Share Posted November 20, 2005 Nancy, WHY are they waiting a week and a half before they start your chemo/treatments? OKAY, I'm sorry, but SOONER IN YOUR CASE, is BETTER! I think the family here will agree with me. I would call and ask WHY are they waiting? Any other family member here wish to chime in on this issue? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nancyf267 Posted November 20, 2005 Author Share Posted November 20, 2005 I feel the same way Connie ~ I feel like this stuff is mutating as we speak! The doctor told me it was because of the holiday.... Thanks, Nancy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cindi o'h Posted November 20, 2005 Share Posted November 20, 2005 http://paktribune.com/news/index.php?id=123636 here is a link to a recent article that Rich posted for us. I hope that the link works... I hope that this study will help to allay your fears about this for now. Sincerely, cindi o'h Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Connie B Posted November 20, 2005 Share Posted November 20, 2005 Everyone that I know that has small cell, they start them on chemo ASAP! Not a week or so down the road. To HELL with the holidays! This is your life we're talking about. I think I would share that with your Onc doc if I were you. Your limited right? Well, lets keep it that way tell him!! I'm concerned for you my dear. Ask the other members here what they think. Small cell is aggressive and they don't like to wait. That's what I have always been told. Good luck Connie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cindi o'h Posted November 20, 2005 Share Posted November 20, 2005 http://paktribune.com/news/index.php?id=123636 here is a link to a recent article that Rich posted for us. I hope that the link works... I hope that this study will help to allay your fears about this for now. Sincerely, cindi o'h Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nancyf267 Posted November 20, 2005 Author Share Posted November 20, 2005 Interesting article Cindi o'h, it does make the waiting a little easier...I'm just scared that today it's limited and tomorrow it will be extensive ~ there has to be that point where it crosses over so to speak. Thank you Connie, I will make that call 1st thing Monday morning and tell them just that! "It is my life we're talking about here!" I will let ya know what he says. Thanks again, Nancy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Connie B Posted November 20, 2005 Share Posted November 20, 2005 I know what that article says, but I guess it's like everything, I don't agree with it in the treatments of small cell. Just because an artcile is written in a paper, doesn't make it so. Learned that lesson a long time ago. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cindi o'h Posted November 20, 2005 Share Posted November 20, 2005 I will be very surprised if even a phone call from the pope will get you in any faster than is already planned. I will pray for your energies to be used in remembering acceptance over what you cannot change. I will pray for peace in every cell in your body. Fear is the enemy. Your plan is there. You are safe. Cindi o'h Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
berisa Posted November 20, 2005 Share Posted November 20, 2005 Think Positive! Sorry hearing that you are just diagnosed but you will find much supports and knowledge/experience via this website. Don't be afraid as you are not alone. Come here always! With best regards Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Geri Posted November 20, 2005 Share Posted November 20, 2005 My onc delayed my chemo by a week as I was out of it on painkillers and medication side effects etc. He said there was no reason to be concerned, a week was going to make no difference at all and it gave me time to get a second opinion. I started my chemo the day after seeing another onc (who is now my only onc) and am still here 4 years later to tell the tale. My limited did not change to extensive during that week so try not to worry too much Nancy. This will get less scary as time goes by. Take care Geri Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Connie B Posted November 20, 2005 Share Posted November 20, 2005 Nancy, Let me first say, I am sorry if I scared you! NOT AT ALL MY INTENTIONS! And God Bless Cindi, and Geri for making my message to you a little softer. Thanks Girls! Those that I have dealt with over the years and a few doc's that I have talked to over the years about SCLC say they really like to start chemo ASAP IF THEY CAN on SCLC! Now the flip side is, I DO know one lady that was told she needed CHEMO ASAP for her small cell and she told her doc that SHE was taking a Cruise that they had planned and she would start her chemo when she got back. Her Cancer HAD spread to her liver. Well, long story short, 6+ years later, she is still here and doing just FINE!! But, I won't lie that I am concerned. But, I'm sure a week-and-half will be just fine. Your more then welcome to insert your foot in my rear if that would make you feel better. I'm sorry for putting the fear of God in you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nancyf267 Posted November 20, 2005 Author Share Posted November 20, 2005 Connie...you crack me up! I like that you are straight up whether you scare me or not ~ I appreciate (and need) your opinion....everyone's opinion. Remember guys, this is soooo new for me, I really need to hear all of your comments! And Cindi, I'm sure you are right, my treatment plan is in place and I'm sure they will insist on sticking to it ~ but I will voice my concer to them! Geri...WOW, 4 years...WOW WOW WOW! And Connie, a friend who was diagnosed 6+ years ago I am so happy to have found you guys ~ if I hadn't, I would probably still be in bed crying like a baby!!! God bless you all, Nancy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Connie B Posted November 20, 2005 Share Posted November 20, 2005 Well then, I guess I am happy I could help to get your arse out of bed and turn off the tears for a day or so! But, I still think you should put your foot in my rear, but before you do, let me get MY FOOT OUT FIRST! I am glad to hear your going to ask though. It CAN'T HURT TO ASK! The worst they can say, is NOPE, no can do! Hugs, Connie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nancyf267 Posted November 20, 2005 Author Share Posted November 20, 2005 Oh...I forgot to tell you guys, I print out each of your stories regarding your journey with lung cancer and keep different ones with me at different times. It helps remind me that there is hope, and I have to fight like never before! Geri went to church with me today, tucked in my bible. And, I believe it was Cindi who accompanied me to my doctor's office on Thursday. You guys are there for me more than you know You all are awesome! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kel M Posted November 21, 2005 Share Posted November 21, 2005 Welcome, Nancy! You will find the support and friendships you need to live with lung cancer. Kel Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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