Cindy RN Posted December 18, 2005 Share Posted December 18, 2005 This weekend they (hubby's family) decided that going to a hospice was the best solution. Brownie (my FIL) wants it that way. Tom went down and spent the weekend again at his dad's house. This time tho he helped with cleaning and getting things in order. He called last night and talked about all the stories he recalled being with his dad and bro and sis. (10 of them!!) He also got out his dad's gun collection and cleaned them all. I think he said there 20-30 of them! Some were loaded. Good thing he did this and not the others, I don't think any of them were hunters. I think he sounded better last night than the last few weeks. I hope so, he has been in this zombie like state since we found out. The Cancer is in the lung and liver and several other areas. BUT the liver is the one causing all the problems. He is swelling so much, liver toxins building I suppose. No treatment except lasix. Thanks for the support, I can not talk with him about this too much. Hopefully he will be better when he gets home tonight. Love Cindy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jyoung20 Posted December 18, 2005 Share Posted December 18, 2005 Cindy, So sorry to hear about Brownie. I will keep you and your family in my prayers. GOD BLESS!!! Jamie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ry Posted December 18, 2005 Share Posted December 18, 2005 It's nice he had the chance for some quality time with his dad. I hope all goes well. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shineladysue Posted December 18, 2005 Share Posted December 18, 2005 (((Cindy))), Sorry your family is having to go through this. Know that my thoughts and prayers are with you. Love, Sue Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MilliBr1 Posted December 18, 2005 Share Posted December 18, 2005 Sorry to hear this Cindy I will keep your family in my prayers. My grandpa's nick name was Brownie. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sharyn Posted December 18, 2005 Share Posted December 18, 2005 Just know I am praying for you all... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pammie Posted December 18, 2005 Share Posted December 18, 2005 Brownie and all the rest of the family are in my prayers. pammie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gerbil runner Posted December 18, 2005 Share Posted December 18, 2005 It's so hard...prayers for Tom and his family, and you too. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LynneH Posted December 19, 2005 Share Posted December 19, 2005 Cindy, What a difficult time for all of you. I hope Tom was able to enjoy some of this time with his father and siblings. My heart goes out to all of you. Lynne Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maryanne Posted December 19, 2005 Share Posted December 19, 2005 Hi Cindy, Wow, sorry for what Tom is going through. But it does seem like he has spent some quality time with his dad, reminesing. Prayers sent out to Brownie, Maryanne Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
J.C. Posted December 19, 2005 Share Posted December 19, 2005 Keeping the whole family in my prayers. J.C. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Carleen Posted December 19, 2005 Share Posted December 19, 2005 (((Cindy))) I am saying lots of prayers for Brownie, Tom and your family. I am just so sorry you are going through all this. Hopefully Tom was able to spend some quality time with his father, and built some new warm memories to sustain him through this difficult time. God Bless you all Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fay A. Posted December 19, 2005 Share Posted December 19, 2005 Thinking of you all and sending prayers for peace and strength to see you through this. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ann Posted December 19, 2005 Share Posted December 19, 2005 Oh Cindy...I am just so very sorry that your family has to deal with this, especially at this time of year. I know how hard was for a son to deal with. Right after Dennis died, I found my youngest son alone in his dad's office. He told me that he just wanted to be there with his dad's "stuff." I guess "stuff" really is a strong bond between fathers and sons. Women seem to be able to show more open emotions and talk. I pray that Hospice will help Brownie find comfort. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LTich Posted December 19, 2005 Share Posted December 19, 2005 Cindy- I am so sorry about your FIL. The Holidays, I'm sure, make it especially tough. I hope he is able to find peace & comfort in the hospice. You're in my thoughts & prayers. Lisa Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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