janetg Posted December 27, 2005 Share Posted December 27, 2005 Ronald Peter Joseph, 55, passed away suddenly in the company of his loving family on December 22, 2005. Ron was the youngest child of Mildred (Jones)and the late George Joseph. Ron is also survived by his loving partner Janet (Gallivan), sister Charlene (Larry), brother Wayne, only son Ronnie (Kelly)his treasured grandchildren, Chelsie and Morgan and his special friend, Rene White, who was like a son. Ron was a well known local musician. He was a drummer for over 30 years, playing with several local bands, including Spyder and Integration. He most recently sang and played guitar with his own band, Encore. Ron played his final gig on December 17 in Inverness, a tribute to his close friend, the late Rannie MacLellan. A celebration of Ron's life will take place at Holy Redeemer Church on Saturday, December 24 at 10:00 am with Reverend Errol MacDonald officiating. Burial will take place in Resurrection Cemetery. My beloved Ron suffered a massive coronary on the stairs of our home on Thursday morning. He was on his way to the cancer centre to have radiation for a newly diagnosed pelvic tumour. He had had fluid removed from his abdomen and right lung on Tuesday. He had spent most of the previous weekend at the emergency department because of testing that had to be completed to rule out a blod clot. He was released on Saturday the 17th so that he could travel 2 hours to do the 3rd annual tribute for his friend. His bandmates took great care of him, they set up a chair for him, had bottles of spring water at his finger tips, strapped his guitar on enabling him to sing two one hour sets. He was really fatigued but he did do it. On Sunday, the 18th a group of our friends came to decorate the Christmas tree that Ron had picked out earlier in the week. He enjoyed that evening. He loved Christmas and was so looking forward to it. I was looking forward to it too, for his sake, even though I was spending my first Christmas without mom and dad. I lost them on August 25 and November 7 respectively. On Thursday morning he had his breakfast and pre-radiation Zofran and got dressed to go. He did note that he was having a slight pain in the chest. Within ten minutes he was having difficulty getting his breath and we called an ambulance. He was coherent and did talk to me but by the time the ambulance arrived (5 minutes) he was not responding. He was pronounced dead in the ambulance just minutes from our home. I cannot describe the emptiness I feel. My brother and sister in law talked me into coming to their home (5 hours from Sydney) so we left on Christmas day and I'm now in Halifax for a few days. My boss will be packing the Christmas decorations away while I'm gone so that I don't have to face it when I return. My friends and family are super supportive and are doing everything in their power to help me in this time of shock and sorrow. Ron lived for 21 months since diagnosis. He had a good many months of quality time. I am grateful for that. I'm happy that Ron (for his sake) was taken quickly. There was beautiful celebration of his life. At the time of the committal the Priest asked the choir to sing Silent Night, Holy Night instead of doing farewell prayers. He asked all of the congregation to join in and most did. It was so fitting. For all of you who offered kind words and encouragement and gave us quite a few "chuckles", THANK YOU. Don't Stop Fighting. Don't Stop Playing. Janet Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
francesbean Posted December 27, 2005 Share Posted December 27, 2005 Dearest Janet, I'm sorry to hear about your loss. Please accept my sincerest condolences. Love and Prayers, Frances Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gail p-m Posted December 27, 2005 Share Posted December 27, 2005 Janet I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. Please know you're in my thoughts and prayers. gail p-m Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cindy RN Posted December 27, 2005 Share Posted December 27, 2005 Janet-I am so sorry. Cindy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fall54 Posted December 27, 2005 Share Posted December 27, 2005 Janet, I am so sorry for you're loss. Prayers for comfort and strength are being said for you. God Bless, Jane Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cindi o'h Posted December 27, 2005 Share Posted December 27, 2005 Janet, very sorry to learn of Ron's sudden death. He enjoyed life right up to the end. Please stay around for any help that you may need. Again, so sorry. Cindi o'h Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dadstimeon Posted December 27, 2005 Share Posted December 27, 2005 Janet, I'm very sorry for your loss. Rich Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shineladysue Posted December 27, 2005 Share Posted December 27, 2005 (((Janet))), I am so very sorry. Please accept my heartfelt sympathy. May God be with you in the days ahead. Love and Prayers, Sue Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ginnyde Posted December 27, 2005 Share Posted December 27, 2005 Janet, this news is so sad. It is heartening that Ron got to do the musical tribute to his friend. Please accept my condolences. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shirleyb Posted December 27, 2005 Share Posted December 27, 2005 Janet, I am so sorry. Words cannot ease the pain you are in, just know you are in my prayers. Ron was a very special soul and will be missed by many. Praying for us all. Shirleyb Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Donna G Posted December 27, 2005 Share Posted December 27, 2005 Prayers for you and Ron's family and friends for peace. Donna G Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kel M Posted December 27, 2005 Share Posted December 27, 2005 Please accept my deepest sympathies. My thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time. Kel Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kasey Posted December 27, 2005 Share Posted December 27, 2005 ((((Janet)))), Prayers, hugs, and then more prayers and hugs for you, dear lady! What a time these past few months have been for you . My mind just cannot wrap around the loss of your Mother, Father, and now your Ron. My heartfelt condolences and MUCH sympathy, Janet. You will remain in my thoughts and prayers. Hoping you can find some solace. Kasey Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bunny Posted December 27, 2005 Share Posted December 27, 2005 Janet, I am so so sorry for your tremendous loss. xoxo amie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kamataca Posted December 27, 2005 Share Posted December 27, 2005 Janet, What a horrible loss. But what a gift that he was able to play right up until the 17th! I guess the heavenly band has a new member now. I hope he's up there banging away and making beautiful music. You are certainly in my prayers. Kelly Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Frank Lamb Posted December 27, 2005 Share Posted December 27, 2005 Janet,I am very sorry for your loss.Wishing you strength and comfort in the days ahead. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maryanne Posted December 27, 2005 Share Posted December 27, 2005 Hi Janet, My deepest condonences goes out to you and your family. Losing Ron is unbearable. I am really amazed that on the 17 he did that tribute to his friend who passed and he left on the 22nd. What a brave man he was! I am so sorry. I pray time will heal your tears. We are always here for you. Please let family and friends comfort you through this. I am also so sorry that both your parents have gone so recently. You have had too many tradgedys in your young life. I am so sorry...This is so hard for you. You must feel so alone. But you are not, your love love ones are watching over you and love you so much. I am sure Ron had a lot of company waiting to help with the transition into heaven. Ron has done so much in his life and has brought joy to others through his music. He is a good soul! Peace be with you Janet, Maryanne Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dchurchi Posted December 27, 2005 Share Posted December 27, 2005 Janet, I am so sorry to hear of you loss. Alan and I will pray for you and for Ron's soul Ron showed incredible strength and desire to play tribute to his friend. He sounds like a remarkable man. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sandoster Posted December 27, 2005 Share Posted December 27, 2005 I am sorry for your loss - my thoughts and prayers join all the others here for you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Treebywater Posted December 27, 2005 Share Posted December 27, 2005 I'm so sorry, Janet. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
carolhg Posted December 27, 2005 Share Posted December 27, 2005 ((((((((((((((JANET))))))))))))))))))))) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Calintay Posted December 27, 2005 Share Posted December 27, 2005 My prayers are with you at this difficult time Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ry Posted December 27, 2005 Share Posted December 27, 2005 I am so sorry for your loss. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Donna Posted December 27, 2005 Share Posted December 27, 2005 My deepest sympathy for your loss and prayers for your family..I am so sorry.. Donna K. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Don Wood Posted December 27, 2005 Share Posted December 27, 2005 Janet, my heartfelt sympathies. I am so sorry. My heart is heavy for you and family. Don Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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