tnmynatt Posted January 1, 2006 Share Posted January 1, 2006 I'm having a hard time today being thankful for another year. At this point I am just dreading 2006. So many possible bad things to come--Charlie's cancer, my mother is having a rough time with COPD and the associated SOB (hospitalized for 2 days--got her home on Christmas Day afternoon), and my dad is a very fragile diabetic and has a lung disease (MAC). My mom will have to have oxygen 24/7 now. They are a 9 hour drive away. Charlie is still coughing a lot, too. Just feeling sorry for myself today. Hope tomorrow will be a better day. Thanks for listening. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bethluvswill13 Posted January 1, 2006 Share Posted January 1, 2006 I hope you start feeling better soon. I sometimes feel down, we all do. Im sending you warm hugs and adding you to my prayer list. May God Bless You!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Connie B Posted January 1, 2006 Share Posted January 1, 2006 I think you need a HUG! ((((TINA))))) Sweetie, we're only a click away for you. One day at a time. BABY STEPS my FRIEND! Sending you MORE WARM AND GENTLE HUGS, ((((((((((((TINA))))))))))))) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LynneH Posted January 1, 2006 Share Posted January 1, 2006 Tina, crummy that you have such stinky stuff to think about as you head into the next year. If it helps, try to squeeze in a thought about the times you are going to enjoy with Charlie this year and hearing your parents' voices, even if by phone. If that doesn't help, grab a cookie and a magazine and veg in front of the TV for some Tina time. You deserve some refueling time. Please grab this big hug from me, Lynne Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Don Wood Posted January 1, 2006 Share Posted January 1, 2006 I'm glad you were able to express yourself to us, and I hope there will be some roses among the thorns for you this year. Don Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
J.C. Posted January 1, 2006 Share Posted January 1, 2006 Tina, You are getting in the new year with worries, just wish that 2006 will be the year that correct all that is hurting you. Hugs, you need them. xo Jackie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shineladysue Posted January 1, 2006 Share Posted January 1, 2006 (((Tina))), I understand. Love, Sue Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ginnyde Posted January 2, 2006 Share Posted January 2, 2006 Tina, you are allowed to have a bad day, we all understand. Eat some comfort food, put on your most comfy jammies, then go to bed early. Tomorrow will look better. We are all here for you. P.S. Maybe a little smile. Everytime I see your sign on name I think it is Tammy Wynette. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gerbil runner Posted January 2, 2006 Share Posted January 2, 2006 I'm so sorry, Tina, and I understand. 2005 was that way for me. But even the worst of years hold golden moments - 2005 was the year I had my gallbladder out in emergency surgery, the year I didn't run at all, the year I started therapy due to depression, the year our business got sued, the year my aunt was diagnosed with sclc, the year my mom got brain mets, and the year my mom died...but it was the year I found out I really do have a big brother, like I always wanted. What a huge gift, what great memories of his 2 trips and reunion with my mom, his birth mother for whom he had searched for 4 years! No matter how many tears you shed this year, there will be many pearls you keep. Search them out and save them. Take photos, make a family tree, learn the quirky stories of your family. Think of this year as a gift, the year you know you must get all you can into your relationships with your loved ones. So many people are taken by surprise and lose those stories, those "last chance" moments. And if you're wrong, and everyone in your family enjoys a joyous entry into 2007, think of all the quality time you'll have spent with them . I hope you are happily surprised by the coming year. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jang Posted January 2, 2006 Share Posted January 2, 2006 Tina, I hope that 2006 is much happier for you. Hang in there, we are praying that things get better. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nancy c Posted January 2, 2006 Share Posted January 2, 2006 I am praying for your family. Sometimes it seems we are given too much to deal with. God bless you, Nancy C Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Andrea Posted January 2, 2006 Share Posted January 2, 2006 Tina, I am convinced the holidays bring out the blues. I hope 2006 is better for you and Charlie and your beautiful family! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Treebywater Posted January 2, 2006 Share Posted January 2, 2006 ((((Tina))))) Wishing the best for your 2006. I know what it's like to dread a new year. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hollyanne Posted January 2, 2006 Share Posted January 2, 2006 Tina - You have every reason to have a crappy day - throw a major pity party...and then tomorrow will be better. Give yourself permission to feel like s**t! I am doing that for myself tonight, and I am hopeful that I will feel somewhat better tomorrow. Thinking of you, Holly Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stand4hope Posted January 2, 2006 Share Posted January 2, 2006 (((((((((((((TINA))))))))))))) Love, Peggy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bauner95 Posted January 2, 2006 Share Posted January 2, 2006 Tina, I am sorry that you are having a rough day. You seem to have a lot going on right now. I hope that things get better for you. Kim Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cindi o'h Posted January 2, 2006 Share Posted January 2, 2006 Tina, You got it from all directions that is for sure. Take baby bites and try not to get overwhelmed by looking at the big picture. I do agree with the cookies and pajamas part.... love, Cindi o'h Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
carolhg Posted January 2, 2006 Share Posted January 2, 2006 You have certainly been overwhelmed. You do need to vent, we are only human. I pray that you and your family have a turn around for good in this new year. Prayers Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Leslie221 Posted January 2, 2006 Share Posted January 2, 2006 Tina, This is the roughest time of year for anybody (except maybe little kids) emotionally, no matter else is going on. I don't think there's anyone out here who hasn't felt it a few times (at least.) Be kind, kind, kind to yourself - spoil yourself a little. It helps. Once we get out of the first 4 weeks after Christmas, a more normal life will kick in and we can all breath a sigh of relief and face whatever we have to face with new energy and hope. Wish I could send you the biggest tub of the best ice cream you ever tasted! Leslie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maryanne Posted January 2, 2006 Share Posted January 2, 2006 Hi Tina, I hope you are feeling better today. Please do not think of the furture just think of today and you will get through it. Just visit when you can and there is always the phone. Just hearing your voice will be enought to lift the spirits of your love ones up. Sorry about the news of your mom and the oxygen. Take care honey, we are always to help you get through those tough times. Maryanne Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bunny Posted January 2, 2006 Share Posted January 2, 2006 Gosh, Tina. I am right there with you. I feel daunted at the thought of another year of challenges. I don't have advice, just understanding and support. xoxo amie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ry Posted January 2, 2006 Share Posted January 2, 2006 Well here it is tomorrow so I hope it is a better day. We all have those times where we sink into a funk--hard not to sometimes. I hope the year is better than you expect. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tnmynatt Posted January 2, 2006 Author Share Posted January 2, 2006 Thanks for all your caring words and prayers of support. I'm about the same...but did do some shopping this morning. Needed some new shoes. BTW, I'm starting on "healthier eating" and walking tomorrow. Hoping that will help me feel better. Take care. You'll are so precious to me. I hate the cancer! Nobody deserves to go through all that we have to. Praying for a cure for us all. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cindi o'h Posted January 2, 2006 Share Posted January 2, 2006 okay then, oatmeal cookies. And don't forget the bandaids for your heels. love, Cindi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bunny Posted January 3, 2006 Share Posted January 3, 2006 Tina, we had a mind meld. I went to DSW this weekend, and came away with 3 new pairs of shoes (for like 50% off!!). it's a safe place for a little retail therapy, which can go a long way. hang in there. xoxo amie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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