tammy_ Posted January 26, 2006 Share Posted January 26, 2006 I've heard so many different opinions about how chemo is so hard to go through that it's not worth it at all. Is it? From what I"ve read chemo can extend your life expectancy by more than double. But it's also hell to go through. Is chemo worth going through or should we just say no to chemo? I really need some advice...thanks, Tammy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Donna G Posted January 26, 2006 Share Posted January 26, 2006 I had chemo and radiation at the same time. That was 8 yrs ago. Mostly I was just very tired. I am sure some of the fatigue was also from the "stress" of being told you have lung cancer that is pressing on nerves and blood vessels and pleura etc and going through all the testing etc. I am alive. I am NED. I think it was well worth it. Besides that the pain I was having was gone in just a couple of treatments. Donna G P S I forgot to mention I did loose hair! The up side, no shaving for months! Very quick blow dry ( very few stands of hair to fix) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ry Posted January 26, 2006 Share Posted January 26, 2006 Yes, absolutely its worth it. Chemo is not as bad as it was years ago. There are now many drugs to help with the nausea. You can do this. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
j ross Posted January 26, 2006 Share Posted January 26, 2006 As I have said before I know people are different but for Barry the chemo was not nearly as bad as was anticipated and the pain went very quickly. After each chemo session we actually had lunch in the local pub. Jennie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr Ry Posted January 26, 2006 Share Posted January 26, 2006 Tammy, For me it was well worth it. I am about to start it again. There are a few things to consider though. 1) Is age. 2) Current health. I was in very good health before diagnosis. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dads girl Posted January 26, 2006 Share Posted January 26, 2006 My dad is 73 and has no side effects from chemo. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jyoung20 Posted January 26, 2006 Share Posted January 26, 2006 Yes, I think it's worth it. I credit chemo and radiation along with God,my family, friends, and my docs.to saving my life. GOD BLESS!! Jamie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
carolhg Posted January 26, 2006 Share Posted January 26, 2006 It was certainly worth it for me. I also had chemo and radiation at the same time which allowed me to have surgery. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cindi o'h Posted January 26, 2006 Share Posted January 26, 2006 I had a treatment plan of radiation plus chemo. Which was the magic bullet? Or was it the combination together that made the cancer go away? Good luck to you and your Dad, Tammi. Please keep the questions coming. I wish his process were somehow expedited. Cindi o'h Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dadstimeon Posted January 26, 2006 Share Posted January 26, 2006 Tammy, It's worth it. Of course everyone is different (I have had few side effects, been lucky) and a lot of factors (type, size, stage, age, health etc) play into the equation. Bottom line a individual choice. One does not know unless one tries it. I myself would still do it regardless of the side effects if it's going to help me beat this thing or at the very least stay alive as long as possible. Been doing the chemo tango for 37 months and still have a life. They have come a long way in chemo and medications to off set side effects. Hope this helps. Rich Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kimblanchard Posted January 26, 2006 Share Posted January 26, 2006 Is Chemo worth it? I was given one year 30 months ago.... Please read my profile below, few people have had the amount of chemo that I have and I have had only very minor side effects from any of them. Your milage may differ. jim Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
myrnalu Posted January 26, 2006 Share Posted January 26, 2006 I just finished 8weeks of chemo and radiation.Felt achy a couple days a week and tired but no really bad side effects,no nausea at all,didnt even lose my hair.Go for it!Yes it is worth it.I dont know if it worked for me or not,scans next month will tell,but anything that will fight this monster is definatly worth a try. prayers to you Marie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Don Wood Posted January 26, 2006 Share Posted January 26, 2006 If it wasn't for chemo, Lucie would not be here over three years after her diagnosis. And we have had a good life during that time, despite the side effects, etc. Don Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Don M Posted January 26, 2006 Share Posted January 26, 2006 ABSOLUTELY..NO DOUBT AT ALL..CHEMO IS WORTH IT! I wish I had done chemo after my first surgery because maybe I would not have gotten my second cancer. I easily tolerated my chemo after my second surgery. Don M Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fay A. Posted January 26, 2006 Share Posted January 26, 2006 Only if you really want to live, and are capable of appreciating the gift of life even when things are difficult. For me it is a no brainer...I want to live. So, YES! It is worth it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Connie B Posted January 26, 2006 Share Posted January 26, 2006 10-1/2 years after chemo and radiation treatments my vote is, YES it's worth it! I had minor side effects from my treatments. And FayA said a mouth full regarding LIFE! The what if's will haunt you no matter which way you go. Sometimes chemo works and sometimes it don't. POSITIVE ATTITUDE is half the battle in surviving cancer. I went into my treatments saying over and over and over, I CAN DO THIS, I CAN DO THIS, I WON'T GET SICK! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maryanne Posted January 26, 2006 Share Posted January 26, 2006 Tammy, As you can see by the responses it is definetly worth it. My hubby had 5 weeks of carbo/toxal with little side effects. Go for It it could save our life. Isn't that worth it?? Good luck, Maryanne Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ellakc2 Posted January 27, 2006 Share Posted January 27, 2006 Hi Tammy, You always hear the bad things about chemo. I think it depends on the kind, amount and each person is sooo different. I had 8 rounds of chemo, and had radiation at the same time. My radiation was way hard. I also believe it saved my life. I tolerated chemo extremely well. I was tired, but a far as the stomach, I was only sick two times. Chemo is way worth it whether you get sick or not. What is a few months of sickness and pain if you live. Good luck to you and take care. Mare Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bethluvswill13 Posted January 27, 2006 Share Posted January 27, 2006 Tammy- I have no answers for you, but wishing you the best. I'll be praying you make the right decision. Hugs,Beth Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
battleofbrooklyn Posted January 27, 2006 Share Posted January 27, 2006 It's at least worth a try. If you can't tolerate it, you can re-evaluate then, but you won't know how your body reacts until you give it a shot. For instance, my mother got through six cycles Cisplatin/Etposide, which is very heavy-duty, with manageable side effects. She was pretty sick (tired nauseous) for a few days each cycle, but that was the trade-off for the tumor shrinking 90 percent and being able to enjoy most days during a four-month period. She just went through a couple of cycles of a different, second-line chemo -- Topotecan -- that was much tougher on her. So after consulting with the doctor, she stopped -- which any patient can do at any time. Now she's waiting to get some of her strength back so she can try something new and keep on living! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Miami Janet Posted January 27, 2006 Share Posted January 27, 2006 Hi Tammy, For my Mom chemo was not too bad...she lost hair and was tired but thats about it...the hair grew back. The chemo/radiation gave her a lot more time and it was also her decision to fight. She didnt have nausea, vomiting or any of the other things you may worry about. Im sure you will come to the right decision for you...Janet Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lindseysmom Posted January 27, 2006 Share Posted January 27, 2006 Yes, It was definately worth it to me. I felt tired during the chemo and had some joint pain but I feel great today. Best Wishes, Dee Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marym Posted January 27, 2006 Share Posted January 27, 2006 Tammy, Like most of the responses, mine is also a yes. Chemo has been fairly easy for me - I start my 8th cycle next week. I have only had nausea a few times and the pills handle that. Other than that, I have had a few times where I was tired and needed extra sleep, and one period where I was quite achy, attributed to a drug taken for my white cells. Living a few more years is worth the minimal side effects. Best wishes. Mary Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RandyW Posted January 28, 2006 Share Posted January 28, 2006 DEb has had I think 5 Lines of chemo plus 8 weeks of Maximum Curative Radiation, ove rthe last 3 years and I love and respect her so much, UHOH MELTDOWN STARTING I THINK!?, that I loved her so much more each day. She fought so hard every day to have another day to live and fight that it is amazing actually. She was 9 weeks shy of a 3 year fight and was to start Alimta Avastin the day she went home from this earthly place. 10 people were at her funeral yesterday and it was the same 10 who were at our wedding almost 9 years ago. Remember yesterday, Liv efor today and Pray for tomorrow. I know this firsthand. Much love and prayers for you now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Carleen Posted January 28, 2006 Share Posted January 28, 2006 This is a decision that only you can make, and I pray that God aids you in your decision and brings you comfort in whatever it may be. I know for my husband, the chemo was absolutely worth it. I can say that I think it was worth it for him, and definitely worth it for me. Each person reacts differently to chemo, but there are so many different ones out there, and so many new antinausea medications available now to help with it. All I can say is that upon diagnosis my husband was told he could expect about 9 months. He's had a LOT of chemo, and I think because of it he's going on 3 years now. I am grateful and thankful for each and every one of these extra days we are being blessed with. After this length of time, it is more difficult because chemo does cumulate and wear the body down. In the beginning, Keith tolerated it well; a day or two of nausea and some exhaustion. He likened it to having a hangover. Now, he has more side effects from his chemo, mostly severe exhaustion and nausea, but he still is able to work full time. He is still able to laugh and enjoy the many good moments we have together. He is still here and able to hold me as we fall asleep at night. He is still alive and not just technically alive but he is still LIVING life to its fullest. For us... it was worth it 100%. You are in my prayers Carleen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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