Larry Posted February 18, 2006 Share Posted February 18, 2006 I've had so many people want to know how i'm doing that i sometime's feel so Guilty when i say i'm doing great. I often feel Guilty myself when i find my self not all tied up in sadness and loneliness. I've said this so many time's about how wonderful of a Job my Wife did in preparing all for her end, such as not to feel sorry for her and telling all she feared not death. I remember asking her if she ever prayed for GOD to heal her and her answer was so positively strong as she would say NO as GOD know's what is best for me.If asked about dieing she would simply say when GOD call's me then and then only will i die as no Doctor or anyone know's but GOD.Do i have sad and emotional moment's and time's of missing her , the answer is of course but then she if able to now speak with me would simply say i'm doing great and not to worry. My Love for my Wife was not one that was all mushy as such but a love that was shown in my looking at her or doing something i hated to do for her (like painting). My wife i'm certain while here with me was praying that GOD would keep me strong and not too sad as i too was praying that God would help me to accept his will for my Wife and to keep me strong.So does that prove GOD answers Prayer i certainly believe so and that is why i'm not so SAD..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maryanne Posted February 18, 2006 Share Posted February 18, 2006 G-d bless you Larry for your belief and strength. This has made the transition of your wife much more easier without having to worry about you. Take care and continue to be strong, Maryanne Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
carolhg Posted February 18, 2006 Share Posted February 18, 2006 My prayers and thoughts are with you Larry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
daggiesmom Posted February 18, 2006 Share Posted February 18, 2006 ((())) Joanie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SBeth Posted February 18, 2006 Share Posted February 18, 2006 Thank you Larry. Your faith and strength inspire me to continue to look for things in my life to make me feel good and want to go on until God decides he has another plan for me. Thank you for sharing your words of wisdom. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
J.C. Posted February 19, 2006 Share Posted February 19, 2006 Thank you Larry, It is so good to have periods of well being even when a bit sad. Hugs Jackie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Frank Lamb Posted February 19, 2006 Share Posted February 19, 2006 Larry,I'm glad your strong faith is making this acceptable for you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Patkid Posted February 19, 2006 Share Posted February 19, 2006 I am trying, Larry, your words help. P Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gail p-m Posted February 19, 2006 Share Posted February 19, 2006 Larry, I'm glad your strong faith is helping you through this difficult time. Prayers. gail p-m Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kasey Posted February 19, 2006 Share Posted February 19, 2006 Larry, Your strength is inspirational. Your wife must certainly have been an awesome woman. Sounds as if the faith both of you obviously shared is bringing much comfort you you. I am so glad for that. Kasey Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shineladysue Posted February 19, 2006 Share Posted February 19, 2006 Larry, Thank you for sharing so much of yourself and your thoughts with us. You are a real inspiration. Alyce was a blessed woman to have you and you a blessed man to have her. Yes, Larry, I believe you are right. Your prayers have been answered. God Bless you. Love and Prayers, Sue Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cindi o'h Posted February 19, 2006 Share Posted February 19, 2006 Larry, You are going through some tough times and you are rightfully allowing Him and his holy angels to carry you through. Keep leaning. Cindi o'h Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
paddy Posted February 19, 2006 Share Posted February 19, 2006 Your courage is remarkable Larry. I am sure your wife would be so proud of your strength. When I am feeling low and people ask me how I am doing I usually say, "I,m having a bad day today" and they seem to understand. I don't make a big fuss but it just lets them know that they shouldn't expect me to be all bright and breezy. Paddy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bunny Posted February 19, 2006 Share Posted February 19, 2006 thanks, Larry. you continue to be an example of faith, and friend to us here. xoxo amie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ann Posted February 20, 2006 Share Posted February 20, 2006 Larry... Alyce was truly a remarkable woman. She did such a wonderful job of preparing her loved ones for the time when she would not be with them, physically. I think you're a great inspiration to all that have loved and lost. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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