GracieJules Posted March 8, 2006 Share Posted March 8, 2006 I've been lurking here all week, getting up the courage to post. I'm a 51 year old non-smoker who has been diagnosed with non-small cell lung cancer. So far it is in my lung and has metastized to my brain. I'm just completely freaked out and am looking for words of encouragement. gracieJules Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nancy B Posted March 8, 2006 Share Posted March 8, 2006 Gracie, welcome. I was born and raised in Missouri - Grandview. Sorry you have to be here, but let us know what we can do to help you. It is not an easy thing to do, but it is doable. Hugs, Nancy B Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Don Wood Posted March 8, 2006 Share Posted March 8, 2006 Hi, Gracie, and welcome. My wife is Stage IV nsclc and so far has been a survivor for over 3 years. So hang in there. Keep us posted. Don Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
missyk Posted March 8, 2006 Share Posted March 8, 2006 Welcome Gracie (and neighbor!!!) Mom was diagnosed over 9 months ago with stage IV lung cancer with mets to the brain...she's still kickin right along. I'm sorry to hear you had to find this place, but glad you did. You'll find many who've been there and much love, support, and many prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Don M Posted March 8, 2006 Share Posted March 8, 2006 Welcome Gracie: I too am sorry you have to deal with the cancer. I think you will find that once you get a treatment plan going, you will fall into a routine and it won't seem quite as overwheming. Don M Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maryanne Posted March 8, 2006 Share Posted March 8, 2006 Welcome Gracie!! Sorry you had to find us, and so glad that you joined us and came in from lurking. As you will see we are a very knowledgeable and supportive group. There are many here who were diagnoised with your particular LC. They hae beaten the odds big time. Just know that LC is not a death sentence, there are numberous treatments she just has to find the one that works or her. Keep us posted, Maryann3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chasebiz Posted March 8, 2006 Share Posted March 8, 2006 gracie, this is my first i found this site, i know how you fell exactly, when i was diagnosed i was in shock the word cancer just was so scary-thought this to be my death sentence, cried and cried, felt bad for my mom i take care of, didn't know what to do -who to listen to,chemo was the scariest-looked up alternative medicines andy research i could do - but am going to cyberknife -hopefully will get it over with,its in gods hands -so how many consultations,hopefully you have more than 1 -this is the start - build uo immune system,look into all treatments, chose the best on how you feel confortable. i wish you all the best and am sorry for us all that we needed to find this site. keep your faith , chase Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RandyW Posted March 8, 2006 Share Posted March 8, 2006 Read the Good News Section for inspiration and help getting over the fear of the Bad News. This sit ehas a wonderful group of compassionat epeople who are a wealth of info on any subject. Ask and ye shall recieve. Welcome and will say a prayer. Let us know what you need. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Donna G Posted March 8, 2006 Share Posted March 8, 2006 Welcome Gracie. So glad you found us. Boy the news the past few days is full of those like yourself afflicted with this disease. Please keep us posted. Donna G Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GracieJules Posted March 8, 2006 Author Share Posted March 8, 2006 My head is spinning. I have an oncologist appointment friday and will know more then. Boy is my carefully proscribed life is going to change. I'll be counting on all of your good advice and encouragement. GracieJules Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tatlyn Posted March 8, 2006 Share Posted March 8, 2006 Welcome Gracie. Please let us know how you make out on Friday. God Bless, Lynda Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Patkid Posted March 8, 2006 Share Posted March 8, 2006 Gracie, Welcome, though I am so sorry you were looking for us. Here we are~ready to lift you up in prayer and with support. Blessings, Pat Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Frank Lamb Posted March 8, 2006 Share Posted March 8, 2006 Gracie,welcome to our support family.There are many good people here and will be able to help you along the way. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
karen335 Posted March 8, 2006 Share Posted March 8, 2006 Gracie, Welcome!!! When 1st dx. it is frightening. This site and the compassionate people her are a wealth of information and support. I was dx 3/2003. Have had chemo and radiation for lung. Two brain surgeries, one two yrs ago. Another just as recent as 3 weeks ago. After 1st surgery, had Stereotactic radiation to the brain to remove any left over residual cells. Last surgery was more for necrosis (dead cell tissue and dead CA cells.) I am doing great. Never, never give up, there are lots of options and keep a positive attitude, I can beat this illness is a great place to start. Just be an advocate for your self. Don't look at statistics and read, read and gain knowledge. Knowledge is power. Ask LOT'S of questions. We don't learn if we don't ask, no question is ever stupid or dumb... Keep the faith and sending prayers up for you... Please keep us posted... Blessings and sending hugs to you, Karen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Patty Posted March 8, 2006 Share Posted March 8, 2006 Welcome GracieJules. Hang with us for lots of support from a lot of caring, compassionate and very knowledgeable group of people. Patty Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joanie55 Posted March 8, 2006 Share Posted March 8, 2006 Gracie, Welcome, but sorry you needed to find us. There is hope and we're all here for you. Joan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ry Posted March 8, 2006 Share Posted March 8, 2006 Welcome Gracie. After your appointment please fill us in on what treatment protocol you will go on. The beginning is hard, we will help you as best we can. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GracieJules Posted March 9, 2006 Author Share Posted March 9, 2006 right now I just feel so bad. My right hand and foot are really numb. I sure hope the doctors can help me with this. Hanging on tilkl friday morning..GracieJules Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
michelepal Posted March 9, 2006 Share Posted March 9, 2006 Gracie, I'm so sorry that you have to be here. But know that were all here to give you the support to get through this. Be strong there are so many treatments out there.(((hugs))) Michele Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Donna Posted March 9, 2006 Share Posted March 9, 2006 Hello Gracie, I am praying for you and hoping you get some good news and find comfort here.. God Bless You, Donna Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hollyanne Posted March 9, 2006 Share Posted March 9, 2006 Gracie - As everyone else has said "i am sorry you had to find us" but know that you will get so much support here. Once you get all the info on the table and devise a treatment plan you will feel more in control. You have to accept the diagnosis and ignore the statistics. There are many, many people with stageIV who are doing very well. It is a journey and a rollercoaster -- and it sucks to be dealt this hand, but you will have great days ahead of you. We are here for you. Holly Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mhutch1366 Posted March 9, 2006 Share Posted March 9, 2006 Hello Gracie and welcome! XOXOX MaryAnn Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bunny Posted March 9, 2006 Share Posted March 9, 2006 I hate that you need us, but glad you're here. there are plenty of survivors here, there's bound to be one with similar staging, etc. freaked out is the understatement of the century, huh? hang around, let us support you. xoxo amie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
J.C. Posted March 9, 2006 Share Posted March 9, 2006 Hello Gracie, Friday, tomorrow, you may be sure you will be in my prayers. Tell us after about your appointment, we will ask you many questions so we can help you more. Hugs Jackie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Linda661 Posted March 10, 2006 Share Posted March 10, 2006 Gracie: I am pretty new here myself and I caretake my mom who is recently diagnosed with stage 3B nsclc-- while I am no expert, I have been venting on these folks big time since coming in with my fears and questions -- they are real knowlegeable about negotiating the path of coping with the diagnosis and what to expect/how to manage what comes up along the way. They have helped me big time already and actually offer so much hope....you have found the right place! Wish you didn't have your diagnosis, but glad you found this support, Linda P.S. My mom was born and raised near Olathe, KS Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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