gerbil runner Posted March 13, 2006 Share Posted March 13, 2006 On Saturday I lost my dear sweet cat Oliver. He squeezed out of a partially open screen door, and my dog spotted him. He ran over to play (Ollie would usually run, but was cornered), and jumped on him. I think Ollie died instantly - there was no blood, no bite marks, nothing. I'm devastated. Ollie was the best kitty - a total lap cat who loved everybody. His fur was so thick and soft. His favorite spot was riding on my shoulders . Dillon had no clue what happened. He's still looking for Ollie. I know some of you will worry Dillon will hurt a person, but it's totally not in his nature. We got him from a rescue who temperament-tests all their dogs. As an example, he has a phobia about getting his nails cut. It's so bad that he gets worried when we cut our own nails. I had the vet try to cut them with no luck. He never growled, never tried to bite, just thrashed like mad - and evacuated his anal glands . I didn't even know animals could do that. EEWWW! I've managed to forgive Dillon, but it really hurts to know Ollie is gone. I miss him sleeping on my bed. My kids miss him hanging out in their rooms. I miss him riding on my shoulders when I make the bed. Ollie died exactly 3 months after my mom . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kel M Posted March 13, 2006 Share Posted March 13, 2006 My sympathies to you and your family. The loss of a pet is very difficult, and particularly when it comes on the heels of the loss of a loved one. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Kel Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
daggiesmom Posted March 13, 2006 Share Posted March 13, 2006 The loss of a pet is so difficult. So sorry to hear about Ollie. Please take comfort in knowing you took good care of Ollie and gave him a happy life. Joanie ((())) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
carolhg Posted March 13, 2006 Share Posted March 13, 2006 I am so sorry about your pet. They are indeed special. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maryanne Posted March 13, 2006 Share Posted March 13, 2006 Ah Jen, what a misfortune. I am so sorry for the loss of you kitty. My heart goes out to you. My sympathies to you and your family and of course Dillon. Maryanne Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Snowflake Posted March 14, 2006 Share Posted March 14, 2006 Jen, I'm sorry. I know how you feel, still grieving my beloved dog and she's been gone 2 1/2 years. So very sorry. xxoo, Becky Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hollyanne Posted March 14, 2006 Share Posted March 14, 2006 Jen - I am so very sorry. I understand how you could love an animal so much and completely appreciate how devastating losing a friend like this is. I wish I could make it better....I am sorry that Ollie is gone. When the time is right, I have a feeling you will have another lovely feline friend on your bed. Holly Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
J.C. Posted March 14, 2006 Share Posted March 14, 2006 Jen, I'm so sorry, we love our pets so much and they give so much love in return. Jackie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pamela Posted March 14, 2006 Share Posted March 14, 2006 I'm so sorry about your cat. I lost my dog almost exactly a year to the day after Dad died, and I still can't think about her without crying. I read "Marley & Me" over the weekend, and when I got to the part where he puts Marley to sleep, I sobbed for 30 minutes. My husband just held me and patted my back. I'm sorry you have to deal with this loss, too. Pam Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shineladysue Posted March 14, 2006 Share Posted March 14, 2006 Jen, I understand and I am so very sorry. Love, Sue Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Frank Lamb Posted March 14, 2006 Share Posted March 14, 2006 Jen,I am very sorry for the loss of your pet.We certainly do become attached to them. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cindi o'h Posted March 14, 2006 Share Posted March 14, 2006 oh poor Oliver. And poor you. I know it hurts. He sounds like he was a cool guy. Cindi o'h Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
karen335 Posted March 14, 2006 Share Posted March 14, 2006 Jen, My heart goes out to you. I lost my Ragdoll kitty to respiatory problems 2 years ago Feb (04.) He thought he was a dog, mannerism of a dog. Came home from church and was in distress, couldn't breath. Slept at foot of bed, ran to door when we came home. Sat on back of recliner close to computer chair, would lean on my shoulder and hit me in head w/paw if I didn't pay attn. to him. They are one of a kind. They are in kitty heaven waiting for us. I know how your heart hurts. I still miss my big kitty (18lbs)with the BIG blue eyes... Sending prayers for comfort and peace, Hugs, Karen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dchurchi Posted March 14, 2006 Share Posted March 14, 2006 Jen, I am sorry about loosing your Cat. My cat Lucky also rides on my shoulders. She wraps herself around me like a mink stole. Loosing a pet is very difficult. I hope your dog Dillon will be ok. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MarkG Posted March 16, 2006 Share Posted March 16, 2006 Hi, I know, I do. Leslie and I have always had several pets, cats and dogs. We would be devestated and cry with each other whenever we lost one of our friends. More times than not, they were run over on the road! That made us lock up our poor little freinds to protect them. But we always felt bad that they were trapped in the house. The past few years we have lived in a small community, very little traffic on dirt roads, so have let those that want to, go out. Leslie only passed this past January. One of our dogs, Arrow, is about 13 yrs now. She isn't fairing real well, but still has that doggie smile, I'm sure you know the smile. I figure as long as she seems happy, I will be sure to continue to let her enjoy her time. But I know that sometime soon, I will have a tough decision to make. With the loss of Leslie, I am so scared of that day to come. I don't know how I'll handle having to take Arrow to the vet, for the last time. So, I just wanted to check in with you and let you know that I understand you greif. Life brings us some real difficult experiences. I keep reminding myself that there is a lot of good experience too. But my gosh, the loss of our companions and freinds just trips you up so badly, it sure is difficult to get back up running again. Take care. Mark Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shelliemacs Posted March 16, 2006 Share Posted March 16, 2006 I am so sorry about your kitty. All pets give is unconditional love and when they cross over, it leave such a hole because they dont say goodbye. I hope someday you can take another kitty into your home and love him like you loved Ollie. So many animals need homes now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gerbil runner Posted March 16, 2006 Author Share Posted March 16, 2006 Thanks so much. I'd dearly love to have another cat, but I'm afraid of a repeat accident. Dillon is over 50 lbs., and VERY athletic. He's gentle with my kids, but when he plays with other dogs he's very boisterous. His doggy pals are all bigger than he is, so it's not a problem. And he's actually submissive to other dogs. Dillon is stil looking for Ollie, but we'll be ok. I just miss my big soft kitty. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stephnewyork34 Posted March 17, 2006 Share Posted March 17, 2006 So sorry to hear about that. It is sad for the dog too, he just wanted to play.. My Dad always says the thing about pets is that they always die, but I always have a dog, because long or short, the time we have with them is amazing, and even the sadness isn't as strong as the happiness they bring us. HUGS to you and I am really sorry to hear that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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