I2standfor hope Posted March 16, 2006 Share Posted March 16, 2006 Hi everyone, I am Peggy’s youngest sister, Linda. Since Peggy joined your site, soon after Don’s diagnosis of lung cancer, she has often discussed with me what a wonderful support system all of you have been. I would like to extend my thanks to all of you for your words of hope, comfort, and support to my very dearest sister. I was about 10 or 11 years old when Don first came into my life. First, he was only a name, a “guy” that Peggy was dating and seemed to be pretty crazy about. Later, I remember her standing in the living room, hand in hand with Don, announcing to our Mom, Dad and I that the two of them were getting married. My first reaction was more of a feeling of a sense of loss, that I somehow was losing my big sister, when instead, I was gaining a big brother. Don was a man with high standards. He was compassionate, kind and giving, although he would never admit it. Don always had a way of putting the world into perspective with witty analogies and antidotes. I liken him to Will Rogers. He rarely laughed out loud. Instead, he would stretch his neck, lower his chin, and light up with a huge ear to ear grin displaying a combination delight and mischief. The look seemed to be saying, “Hey, it may not be politically correct, but it’s the truth and damn funny at that!” And it usually always was. He was quite clever, and I must admit, I stole his lines as my own on more than one occasion. You always knew exactly where you stood with Don. He didn’t beat around the bush or sugar coat anything. His opinion became the one I often dreaded, but respected above all others. He didn’t tell me what I wanted to hear, but what he honestly felt. I didn’t always agree, but I always listened and considered his words. He usually ended up being right. Over the years, Don was always there for me and the rest of my family in times of need. He treated me like his little sister, protecting me; defending me and bailing me out of more than one jam that I managed to get myself into. It’s difficult, when referring back on 40 years of memories to sum up the impact a person has had on your life. If I could measure his value in my life in terms of gold, I would be billionaire. I don’t know that I’ve ever known a man with his combination attributes. Over the years, he became my brother and one of my few true friends. Thank you Don. I would also like to add a little regarding my wonderful sister. If I know Peggy, she has gone out of her way on numerous occasions to help as many of you as she felt she could reach. That is the kind of person she is in everything she does, every day of her life. Thank you all again for helping her in ways that no one else could. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ry Posted March 16, 2006 Share Posted March 16, 2006 Linda, It is very sweet of you to come here and share your feelings about Don. Peggy is very lucky to have you in her life for support. Rochelle Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SBeth Posted March 16, 2006 Share Posted March 16, 2006 What beautiful things you have shared with us about Don, thank you! We think so much of Peggy and she is greatly cherished and loved here. I know that she has been a tremendous source of comfort to me during my husband's illness and death. Thank you for taking the time to share your thoughts with us, we knew that Don had to be very special to have had such a wonderful wife. Love, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
J.C. Posted March 17, 2006 Share Posted March 17, 2006 Hello Linda, Thank you for sharing some memories with us. Jackie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shineladysue Posted March 17, 2006 Share Posted March 17, 2006 Linda, It's so nice to hear from you. Your sister is an angel . She has given so much more than she has received here. I lost my husband just 2 weeks ago, but Peggy was there for me long before that time and has continued to give me support. I love Peggy and I hope she knows how very much she has helped me. Thank you for sharing your memories of Don. I know this must have been such a huge loss for you as well. Glad you posted and we welcome you here at LCSC. Love, Sue Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Snowflake Posted March 17, 2006 Share Posted March 17, 2006 Linda, Thank you for the little sister view of "the perfect man". Of course Peggy would say he was perfect - she's his number one cheerleader! To hear it from a little sister is a bit more reality based. I'm glad you had a man like Don in your life to measure all the others against. Every woman should have someone like Don in their life, no matter the relationship. I'm so very sorry for your loss, as well as Peggy's considerable gaping hole in her life. Love to you, Becky Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MEA Posted March 17, 2006 Share Posted March 17, 2006 Hi Linda, What a wonderful tribute to your borther-in-law. We are so blessed when people like Don come into our lives. Mary Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fall54 Posted March 17, 2006 Share Posted March 17, 2006 Hi Linda, I also think the world of Peggy! She has always been there for me and for everyone else she could be in so many ways. What a special Sister you have and from reading you're post what a very special Sister she has. Thank you for really giving me a glimpse of a truly wonderful man. I am so sorry for you're loss as well as Peggy's of course. She has great faith and she will be alright. Don will be waiting for her when it is her turn to go home to Heaven with open arms. You too will see him again and this time eternally. Thank you so much for coming here and letting us get to know you as well. God Bless you all, Jane Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ginnyde Posted March 17, 2006 Share Posted March 17, 2006 Hi Linda, what a wonderful tribute to your sister. I know you talked about how wonderful Don was (and still is in hearts and minds)but I could read between the lines about how much you love and respect your sister. Peggy, is very important to all of us here. She painted such a strong picture of Don for us that we all came to love him too. Thank you for sharing with us. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ann Posted March 17, 2006 Share Posted March 17, 2006 Linda...You have an absolutely WONDERFUL sister. Peggy has been such a good friend to so many of us here at this board. Peggy and I have gone through so very much together, as her Don and my Dennis were so very much alike. Peggy is so fortunate to have such love and support from her you!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Remembering Dave Posted March 20, 2006 Share Posted March 20, 2006 wow, now, that was pretty cool! What a tribute! thank you so much for sharing, and by the way, your sister is one very special person! Karen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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