Inkerdoodler Posted March 29, 2006 Share Posted March 29, 2006 My wonderful Jim lost his battle on March 24 after 3 days in the ICU. He struggled to breathe even on the bi-pap mask and they finally removed it and put him on a standard oxygen mask to make him more comfortable. He fought the battle to the very end. The nursing staff was incredibly supportive and caring and kept him comfortable so that the end was peaceful and he was surrounded by his family holding his hands and telling him how much we loved him. We know he could hear us. We watched as the monitors showed each of his vital signs going down, and his heatbeat was the last. When it finally reached zero we all embraced, sobbing by his bedside... suddenly a minute later my son looked up and said "he's back" and sure enough the little heartbeat was back... and continued for another two minutes or so. We know it was his way of telling us that his heart was still with us, and it always will be. I have appreciated the support of this group throughout our battle and was better able to advocate for his treatment. Thank you for your support! Sandy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Geri Posted March 29, 2006 Share Posted March 29, 2006 I'm so very sorry for your pain. My sympathies to you and your family. Geri Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ginnyde Posted March 29, 2006 Share Posted March 29, 2006 Sandy, I think your dear Jim gave you a beautiful gift, his heart just had to tell you how much he loved you. My thoughts are with you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kel M Posted March 29, 2006 Share Posted March 29, 2006 My sympathies to you and your family. Peace be with you all. Kel Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
michelepal Posted March 29, 2006 Share Posted March 29, 2006 Sandy, I'm so sorry form your pain. Please take care of yourself that's what Jim would want.. (((HUGS))) Love, Michele Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
patut Posted March 29, 2006 Share Posted March 29, 2006 You have my deepest sympathies. My Tim is gone too ( since 12/04). Please know you are not alone. I grieve for all of us. My best to you and your family. C. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KatieB Posted March 29, 2006 Share Posted March 29, 2006 (((sandy))) my prayers continue for you and your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ann Posted March 29, 2006 Share Posted March 29, 2006 Sandy, I am so very sorry for your loss. The love that you shared will always remain in your heart! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Carleen Posted March 29, 2006 Share Posted March 29, 2006 Please know that my heart and prayers are with you and your family right now Sandy. My deepest sympathies on the loss of your dear Jim. I too think Jim knew your heartbreak and took that last chance to tell you not to grieve too much for he would always be linked heartbeat to heartbeat with you. Your love binds you forever. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Patkid Posted March 29, 2006 Share Posted March 29, 2006 (((Sandy))) Love P Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bunny Posted March 29, 2006 Share Posted March 29, 2006 I am so sorry for your tremendous loss, Sandy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shineladysue Posted March 29, 2006 Share Posted March 29, 2006 (((Sandy))), Love, Sue Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shirleyb Posted March 30, 2006 Share Posted March 30, 2006 Sandy, I am truely sorry for your loss. May Jim rest in peace. Shirleyb Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NancyT Posted March 30, 2006 Share Posted March 30, 2006 Dear Sandy, I am so sorry for your terrible loss, sending prayers to you and your family NancyT Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
J.C. Posted March 30, 2006 Share Posted March 30, 2006 Sandy, My deepest sympathies for the loss of your husband. Sending prayers of peace. Jackie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Donna Posted March 30, 2006 Share Posted March 30, 2006 Sandy, I am so very sorry for your great loss..You are in my thoughts and prayers.. Love, Donna Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maryanne Posted March 30, 2006 Share Posted March 30, 2006 Oh Sandy, I am so saddened by your news. I know how much of a fighter he was. Keep those beautiful memories alive in your heart and know who much he loved you and will never be far from your heart. My deepest of sympathies goes out to you and that beautiful family of yours. Maryanne Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eppie Posted March 30, 2006 Share Posted March 30, 2006 Sandy, Please accept my omst heart felt condolences. We will be sisters in our grief together. Much love, Eppie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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