NancyT Posted April 18, 2006 Share Posted April 18, 2006 Everyday I wonder how my Dad will make it through the next and pray to keep him comfortable and resting. Yesterday most of the family came and he was alert and happy to see everyone. Today he hardly spoke, sleeps all day. I am overwhelmed and want so much to help him, but I just sit and hold his hand.......its all I can do. I miss talking to him, sometimes I just sit and carry on the conversation by myself. The hospice nurses tell me it could be days....maybe not. Please pray for him,he is the most wonderful man....this is just so very horrible....my kids are both struggling with losing their grandpa...I am trying to help them. So very sad....I can hardly stand it NancyT Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
carolhg Posted April 18, 2006 Share Posted April 18, 2006 Nancy, Both you and your father are in my prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cindi o'h Posted April 18, 2006 Share Posted April 18, 2006 I am sad for you and for your family too, Nancy. I will hold your Dad in prayer along with you and your kids. Cindi o'h Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
J.C. Posted April 18, 2006 Share Posted April 18, 2006 Nancy, Prayers for the whole family. Jackie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mamasbabygirl Posted April 18, 2006 Share Posted April 18, 2006 I am sorry that you feel so helpless, but you are doing all you can just by being there with him. You are a good daughter. Prayers for peace... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RandyW Posted April 18, 2006 Share Posted April 18, 2006 You are doing everything you can do right now. Only God knows the whole plan for us. Remember yesterday, Cherish today, and Pray for tomorrow. Sending prayers for the whole family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kasey Posted April 18, 2006 Share Posted April 18, 2006 Dear Nancy, Sit with Dad. Hold his hand. Have conversations with him. Pray for him. These are the things you can do..........and they are good. It is heartbreaking to watch ones we love suffer from this evil disease. We are rendered helpless in its path. However, I am offering my prayer that Dad will remain comfortable and feel your loving presence with him. I am praying for Dad, but also for strength for you, Nancy. You are doing an awesome job. Kasey Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Don Wood Posted April 18, 2006 Share Posted April 18, 2006 Holding his hand and talking to him are important. Prayers for you both. Don Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maryanne Posted April 18, 2006 Share Posted April 18, 2006 I am sorry Nancy, this is so sad. I am sending prayers to him and also to you for strength. I pray he is comfortable and pain free, that is so important. I am glad that he was alert enough to enjoy his company. But now you just have to sit with him and talk to him about all those memories you have of your times together. Peace be with you Nancy, Maryanne Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cindy0519 Posted April 18, 2006 Share Posted April 18, 2006 Prayers for not only your Dad but yourself and your entire family. As many others have pointed out and is so hard to remember at times like this... the little things matter a lot! Continue to hold his hand, talk to him and just spend time with him. I'm sure it means the world to him even though he may not be able to tell you so! Wishing you peace during this very difficult time, Cindy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dadstimeon Posted April 18, 2006 Share Posted April 18, 2006 Prayers for you and your father Nancy. Rich Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dazy Posted April 18, 2006 Share Posted April 18, 2006 Prayers for peace to you, and your family. And BIG (((Hugs))). ~Stacey Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jang Posted April 18, 2006 Share Posted April 18, 2006 Nancy, I'm praying for you, your Dad and your whole family. I'm sorry you have to go through this. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Carleen Posted April 18, 2006 Share Posted April 18, 2006 ((((NANCY)))) I am so saddened to hear this about your dear dad. I can only imagine how hard this is for you. But please know that although it doesn't feel like you are doing much, just holding his hand and talking to him right now is his whole world. I am sure he can hear you even if he can't respond, and I know he is aware of you holding his hand. That must bring him a lot of comfort just knowing you are there and that you love him so. I am praying for you both Nancy. I pray that God bring him peace, comfort, and ease of transition from this world into the warm welcome of heaven. I am praying hard for you and your family to have the strength and God's comfort as you go through this painful time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MilliBr1 Posted April 18, 2006 Share Posted April 18, 2006 It is still very fresh in my mind how hard these last days are, you all are in my prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jorja Posted April 18, 2006 Share Posted April 18, 2006 Nancy, Prayers for strength during this difficult time. love, jorja Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hollyanne Posted April 18, 2006 Share Posted April 18, 2006 Nancy - I left you a voicemail as well...prayers for strength for all of you. My mom acted very similarly at the end...hold your dad's hand, let him know you love him and that you understand what a stuggle this has all been. You will get through this. I am here for you...call me whenever. Holly Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MalouDP Posted April 19, 2006 Share Posted April 19, 2006 Prayers for your Dad and the family. Love, Thomas & Malou Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shineladysue Posted April 19, 2006 Share Posted April 19, 2006 Nancy, Wish I knew what to say. Wish I could say something to make this less difficult. Just know that you are doing all that you can. Just being there with your Dad is all you can do. Prayers coming for you, your Dad and your family. Love, Sue Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ztweb Posted April 19, 2006 Share Posted April 19, 2006 Nancy, My heart goes out to you and your family. Keep your faith and know that we are praying for you daily. Life is a journey, and one that brings us joys and sorrows. God bless you and keep you always.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
adela Posted April 19, 2006 Share Posted April 19, 2006 This is a very diffcult time. Towards the end I got into bed with Ed and held his hand stroked his arm. It seemed to calm him. Hold your Dad's hand,rub his forearm, stroke his face, but the most important thing in my opinon is talk to him. He may not be able to reply, but he is listening. Tell him what you thought was the most memorable experience you had with your Dad. Your wedding or when he saw his grandchildren. May you have strength in the days and hours ahead. Adela Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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