Lovemypresley Posted April 27, 2006 Share Posted April 27, 2006 Dad passed away around 6am this morning in his sleep at the hospital. I just spent 2 hours with him...god this so so hard. I am in shock. The dr. came in and he's in shock. He was doing better, and he thinks it was a blood clot to the lung....I can't believe he was only diagnosed 7 weeks ago. damn this cancer hell. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
michelepal Posted April 27, 2006 Share Posted April 27, 2006 OMG Debbie, I am sooooo sorry! Love, Michele Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trish2418 Posted April 27, 2006 Share Posted April 27, 2006 Oh, Debbie. I'm so sorry. What a comfort you were to your dad -- I'm sure it meant so much to him. Take care of yourself and please keep in touch. Trish Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Linda661 Posted April 27, 2006 Share Posted April 27, 2006 Debbie, I am so sorry to hear this. Glad your dad passed peacefully in his sleep though and family was near. Wishing you peace and comfort at this most difficult time and hoping you will stay with us, at least for a bit, to decompress and process what you have just been through -- when you're ready. Linda Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Don M Posted April 27, 2006 Share Posted April 27, 2006 Debbie, I am very sorry that you lost your dad. You can come here any time to unload. Don M Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Treebywater Posted April 27, 2006 Share Posted April 27, 2006 I'm so sorry, Debbie. Please know that we're here to support you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mamasbabygirl Posted April 27, 2006 Share Posted April 27, 2006 OMG, I am so sorry. I can't believe this Debbie. I am so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tnmynatt Posted April 27, 2006 Share Posted April 27, 2006 I am so sorry to hear about your dad. My condolences and prayers to you and your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shelliemacs Posted April 27, 2006 Share Posted April 27, 2006 I too am so very sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tatlyn Posted April 27, 2006 Share Posted April 27, 2006 I'm so sorry Debbie. My heart is heavy for you. God Bless. Lynda Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stephi Posted April 27, 2006 Share Posted April 27, 2006 Debbie, I am so sorry for your loss, and that of your family. Please know you did all you could for him...and out of that, loving him is the best. Sending prayers and hugs .. Stephi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
patut Posted April 27, 2006 Share Posted April 27, 2006 I am really sorry you have lost your Dad. Do come often to get support during this difficult time. Cyndy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ma's kid Posted April 27, 2006 Share Posted April 27, 2006 Oh, Debbie..I am so sad to read this. Libby Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ann Posted April 27, 2006 Share Posted April 27, 2006 Debbie, I am so very sorry for your loss. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maryanne Posted April 27, 2006 Share Posted April 27, 2006 Oh Debbie Iam so sorry. My deepest condolences goes out to you and your family. We are always here for you. Maryanne Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mhutch1366 Posted April 27, 2006 Share Posted April 27, 2006 Debbie, I am so sorry for your loss... XOXOX MaryAnn Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RandyW Posted April 27, 2006 Share Posted April 27, 2006 Deb, I am so devastated I can't see straight. I know you ar enew here and were seeking advice Am glad you were with your dad when this happened and it was peaceful. He is in a better place and some day we will hav ethe greatest reunuionaround. If you want to post anything to help get over this we are always here for support and to listen You have my deepest sympathies and most heartfelt prayers at this difficult time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MalouDP Posted April 27, 2006 Share Posted April 27, 2006 I'm so sorry. I am a little buffled why the doctors ordered to do chemo first when they know he had fluids in his heart and send him home? God Bless you and your family. You are right, damn this cancer beast. Love, Thomas & Malou Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EastCoastLadi Posted April 27, 2006 Share Posted April 27, 2006 Debbie, I am so very sad about your father, I know the pain you are going through, I hate this disease so much, it takes and takes...but please know Debbie, you did everything you possibly could, and I know your dad did too, please try to take care of yourself. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lovemypresley Posted April 28, 2006 Author Share Posted April 28, 2006 Thanks everyone.. I'm sorry I misled you. I was not with him when he passed this morning. They called and I went up after he was gone and spent a couple of hours with him... ..and yes, I wish they had done the surgery first. His dr. said in hindsight, they should have....this was just so so fast and I never said goodbye. His drs. office called me today and she said she was showing everyone his picture (she took it at his first appt. a few wks ago) and no one could believe this, as he looked so healthy. She said now it could have been a little piece of the tumor that broke off and caused an embolism..it's all speculation though..however, I wish I knew but we are not doing an autopsy to find out. I just have so many whatifs...I know that's not healthy. I'm having such a hard time...I suppose I will move down to the grief forum now. Thanks again and good luck to everyone. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
carolhg Posted April 28, 2006 Share Posted April 28, 2006 I am so very, very sorry for your loss. I HATE THIS DISEASE!!! Prayers Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jodi Posted April 28, 2006 Share Posted April 28, 2006 Debbie, I am so sorry, for your loss....this week has been extrememly hard, on our community. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Hugs, Jodi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
adela Posted April 28, 2006 Share Posted April 28, 2006 Debbie, I am so sorry about your loss. This is so hard for you. Adela Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MilliBr1 Posted April 28, 2006 Share Posted April 28, 2006 I am so sorry for your loss. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cindi o'h Posted April 28, 2006 Share Posted April 28, 2006 oh Debbie, I am so sorry for your loss. Please accept my sympathy. Come back for support as you grieve. Cindi o'h Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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