TAnn Posted May 6, 2006 Share Posted May 6, 2006 Well, I saw my oncologist on Wednesday. We agreed that I am no longer benefitting from the chemo. My body has had all it can take. I really never got any better after my last hospital stay. At this point, it is causing more problems than it is helping, so I've been referred to hospice. I'm not at all familiar with how hospice works, but we did meet with a social worker at MD Anderson and they are helping us set everything up. I knew it was getting close, my body just feels terrible all the time now. My husband and I are at peace with it, but I'm scared of what the next months have in store. My biggest hope is that that hospice can get my pain under control. If I'm not on too much you all know why, you are all in my heart. Thank you all for your love and support. TAnn Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Don Wood Posted May 6, 2006 Share Posted May 6, 2006 Teri, Lucie and I are saddened by this turn of events, but we do understand. We feel fortunate we have gotten to know you better. We are looking forward to seeing you soon. Our prayers are with you and your family. Don Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Debi Posted May 6, 2006 Share Posted May 6, 2006 TAnn, I don't know much about hospice either, but the one thing that I do know is how expert they are at working with pain- I am sure that they will be able to help you. You have fought so hard, my best wishes are with you for comfort in the months ahead. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CharlieD Posted May 6, 2006 Share Posted May 6, 2006 Teri, Really terribly sorry and saddened about your situation. The fight that you put up has been an inspiration to me. You and your husband are two brave souls. Keep your chin up my friend and God Bless and comfort you. CharlieD Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stand4hope Posted May 6, 2006 Share Posted May 6, 2006 Oh, dear, Teri, My heart isn't just broken to read this - it is shattered into a million pieces. I am saddened beyond your imagination. You are one of the dearest, sweetest people I've ever known in my life. I am glad to hear you and your husband have peace with this, and I hope the same is true for your son. Now, I am going to go look for some for myself. I love you, sweet lady! God bless you! Peggy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shineladysue Posted May 6, 2006 Share Posted May 6, 2006 Teri, I am so very sorry you are in so much pain. I pray that hospice can make you comfortable. I don't have any experience to offer, but many here feel truly blessed to have their hospice help. I want you to know that you have been such an inspiration and your words have touched my heart on so many occasions. You are a beautiful person, Teri. Hope to hear from you again soon . In the meantime, know that you can count on my prayers to be with you. Love and Prayers, Sue Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Frank Lamb Posted May 6, 2006 Share Posted May 6, 2006 Teri,it is my understanding that the large majority of Hospice teams are true Godsends.Very good at managing any pain and also very skilled with helping with most all other issues as well. You are one of my biggest inspirations on this board.We were diagnosed at almost the same time if memory serves me correctly.I have always been in awe of how much fight and determination you have always displayed. I am very sorry the treatments are not helping any longer.We will keep you and your husband in our thoughts and prayers daily. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
carolhg Posted May 6, 2006 Share Posted May 6, 2006 Teri, You and your family are in my prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sheri Posted May 6, 2006 Share Posted May 6, 2006 Tann, I am one of your silent fans. I'm sorry to hear about the turn of events but understand you know what is right for you. You're the epitome of courage and strength and I'll still pray for your miracle. Most of all, I wish you comfort. I hope hospice can manage your pain. Teri, you've touched more lives than you'll ever know through your journey. Please check in when you can. You're a blessed soul. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Treebywater Posted May 6, 2006 Share Posted May 6, 2006 Oh TAnn. You are so very much loved. Please, please know that. Praying for you here--for easing of pain and peace for you and all of your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
daggiesmom Posted May 6, 2006 Share Posted May 6, 2006 TAnn, I'mm so sorry to hear of your trouble. God Bless you always. Joanie ((()())) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ErinC1973 Posted May 6, 2006 Share Posted May 6, 2006 I am so very very sorry Teri. Not much more I can say. I am just so sorry. God, I hate this disease... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suzie Q Posted May 6, 2006 Share Posted May 6, 2006 Teri, I am so saddened to hear this news. I wish you release from your pain and peace and love with your dear ones in the time ahead. Suz Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hollyanne Posted May 6, 2006 Share Posted May 6, 2006 Teri - My heart breaks to read this -- yet I am so thankful that you are truly at peace. Hospice WILL get your pain under control -- they WILL. My mom's very best time was when we stopped dreadful treatment and she was pain free with hospice's help. I know you have much good time ahead. I pray that you will not be fearful of anything ahead of you, that your body has a chance to recover from chemo and that you may truly enjoy living. All my love and prayers go out to you, Holly Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
slinaresholz Posted May 6, 2006 Share Posted May 6, 2006 Terry, Hugs and prayers and I know hospice will help you with your pain. Sharon Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cindi o'h Posted May 6, 2006 Share Posted May 6, 2006 Dear Teri, There are no regrets when you gave it your all. And you sure have done that, Teri. I am glad that you have called for some help. I hope that you will have good nurses and good care. I thank you for your kinship here and all of your good advice to me. I wish you peace and comfort. Cindi o'h Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trish2418 Posted May 6, 2006 Share Posted May 6, 2006 Teri, I'm truly saddened by this news. I wish you peace and comfort in this next phase of the journey. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Trish Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
K and Kids Posted May 6, 2006 Share Posted May 6, 2006 And you are in my heart and prayers. I am so sorry TAnn. I wish you comfort and love during this time ... for you and your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ry Posted May 6, 2006 Share Posted May 6, 2006 I am saddened that it is time for hospice but I know they will be a help to you and your family. A good hospice will support all of you. The nurses should be able to help your pain- it's what they do. You will always be in our hearts T. Rochelle Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Geri Posted May 6, 2006 Share Posted May 6, 2006 I'm so sorry that your journey has come to this, you fought so hard and are an inspiration to us all. My thoughts are with you. Geri Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dadstimeon Posted May 6, 2006 Share Posted May 6, 2006 TAnn, I'm very sorry to here that, you fought the true fight and are an inspiration to many of us. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Rich Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nancy B Posted May 6, 2006 Share Posted May 6, 2006 Teri, May God bless you and comfort you. You and your family are in my prayers. Love, Nancy B Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ma's kid Posted May 6, 2006 Share Posted May 6, 2006 Very sad to hear this, TAnn. Blessings, love and prayers for you and yours. Libby Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
francesbean Posted May 6, 2006 Share Posted May 6, 2006 And you are also in our hearts. Praying for peaceful and beautiful days ahead, Teri. God bless. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Calintay Posted May 6, 2006 Share Posted May 6, 2006 Teri - Many prayers for you and your family. Hope your pain will soon be under control. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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