Crystal B Posted December 10, 2006 Posted December 10, 2006 Let me introduce myself, I am Crystal, Darrell's girlfriend. I want to thank you all so much for the wonderful words about Darrell. He truly was an inspiration to me and others. He has been so strong through the recent months and always tried to be upbeat. I am truly blessed to have had him in my life over the past 4-5 months. Thank you so much for giving him courage and support over the past year. I am going to miss him more than words can say. Crystal Quote
Nick C Posted December 10, 2006 Posted December 10, 2006 It is my sense that there are dozens, maybe hundreds here that felt blessed by knowing Darrell. If only all of us could touch so many lives. I'm very sorry for your loss. Quote
Maryanne Posted December 10, 2006 Posted December 10, 2006 Oh Crystal I am so sorry and I can't thank you enough for posting. The load you carried today was tremendous as they put Darrell to rest. Thank you for being in Darrell's life. It is comforting to know that you were with him and he found a love in his life even though it was cut short. But you were there for him and I am so grateful for that. We never knew how sick he was as he never let us know that he was having problems. The only way we found out was through Chris one of our members who kept in touch with Darrell. She kept us infomed about his whereabouts and would update us on his condition. Even at the end when he came home from the hospital, he would answer a post being optimistic as he always was. And I remember him saying how great it was to be home. He was so excited but unfortunately that was short-lived as he went back to the hospital and with all the prayers sent to him, heaven needed him more. I am heartbroken Crystal, but we are all so lucky to have known him. Us being cyber and you being physical. Darrell Barnes will live on in all of our hearts as that is where he touched us the most. We are always here for you. You can talk to us anytime 24/7 Peace be with you Crystal. Please let us know when Kari Jo has her baby. Maryanne Quote
Tracey Huguley Posted December 10, 2006 Posted December 10, 2006 Crystal, I'm so sorry to hear of your loss... I will keep you in my prayers... Love, Tracey Huguley Quote
nikkala Posted December 10, 2006 Posted December 10, 2006 Crystal, The loss we feel here is huge, I can't even imagine the loss you feel. I am so very sorry. You are in my prayers. Quote
RandyW Posted December 10, 2006 Posted December 10, 2006 We are always here if you need anything. condolences and Prayers for strength and stability in this trying time. Any time you need to vent or a shoulder or someone just to comunicate, We are here. Blessings, prayers and courage. Quote
eppie Posted December 10, 2006 Posted December 10, 2006 Prayers to you Crystal... I am so glad he had your love and kindness during this difficult time in his life. But even through this he was such a sweetie! We will miss him so much. Much love, Eppie Quote
EastCoastLadi Posted December 10, 2006 Posted December 10, 2006 Crystal, Darrells' passing has hit me hard, he fought such a courageous battle, like so, so many others I can't believe he is gone. I know you must be going through such a difficult time right now, please know that you have many people here who care about you and what you are going through. Please don't hesistate to come here any time...we will be here for you. Grace Quote
hollyanne Posted December 10, 2006 Posted December 10, 2006 Crystal - We were so lucky to be even a tiny part of darrell's life. what a class act. As I mentioned before, Heaven gained a wonderful angel. Love to you and to his daughter -- and little on the way! We are here for all of you. Holly Quote
Welthy Posted December 10, 2006 Posted December 10, 2006 Crystal, So glad you posted. We were all so very blessed to have known Darrell in our own way. I thank you for being with him through these last months -- what a comfort for Darrell to have someone who cared so much for him. Please accept my sincere sympathy, not only to you, but to his daughter too. He will be missed, but he has left such a legacy. Warmest regards, Welthy Quote
dchurchi Posted December 11, 2006 Posted December 11, 2006 Crystal, I am very sorry for your loss. Darrell was a very special person to all of us. His determination to fight the beast was amazing. He was an inspiration. our prayers are with you and his daughter. we are here if you need us. Quote
Ann Posted December 11, 2006 Posted December 11, 2006 Crystal....I am so very sorry for your loss. I know how blessed you must feel to have been such an important part of Darrell's life. He was truly a very special person that touched the lives of so many people here on this board. He will be remembered for his courageous attitude while fighting this terrible disease. I pray that you are able to carry his strength with you. Quote
trish2418 Posted December 11, 2006 Posted December 11, 2006 I am so sorry for your loss, Crystal. Darrell was indeed a very special person. You're in my prayers. Trish Quote
michelepal Posted December 11, 2006 Posted December 11, 2006 Crystal, I'm so sorry for your loss! Michele Quote
Crystal B Posted December 14, 2006 Author Posted December 14, 2006 Thank you all for responding. As Kari, Darrell's daughter, said in your note, Darrell mentioned this website quite often and I even referred to it to help him do research but I never went to the message board. There are a lot of great people here. My father also lost a battle to lung cancer in 2000. Having going through this battle with my father, it gave me strength to help Darrell through his treatments. I miss both of them so much but now I know Darrell is up in Heaven with my Dad. Love to all. Crystal Quote
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